"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Met a girl online

Elevenbravo

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This is my first post here.
I just recently met a girl from the net. We hung out at her house and I made the move and kissed her. Then asked her out a bit later. She said yes, but then talked to me on the phone the next day and said it was to fast. She says she likes me but just wants to give it more time before we make that decision. Any suggestions on what I could do to "help" her decision?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After reading a few tips here, should I try the agreeing approach? Should I just say "Ya know what, friends is what we should be for now"?
 
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