"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Met a girl from PoF.. And two of her friends! LOL!

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Been using some sex message on PoF and OkCupid a while, it's been missing a lot but actually hitting some. I first contacted this chick about 2 weeks or so ago with it, she said she's down, got her number, ect.. About a week ago I got a text from her telling me to come over and f*ck her and her girlfriend. Couldn't do it, bad timing. After our schedules had been in conflict for a while, we're finally able to set something up.. For today. I get there, and there aren't two girls, there are three. The original chick, her blonde friend, and her brunette friend (who wasn't supposed to be there). The original girl is heavier than I expected, her blonde friend is sexier than I expected, and the brunette is pretty cute. Their "plan" is for me to f*ck all three of them one after another. I'm not a porn star and don't have any viagra, but what man would say no to that?

They invite me in, I sit down on the couch, spread out, and they get me a beer. By the way, they're all drunk.. At 4pm LOL! Classy, right? They're teasing me, I'm teasing them. Blah blah blah. The brunette girl, who wasn't even supposed to be there, is hitting on me like crazy. Trying to get me to take my shirt off, telling me to strip, telling me to get naked, talking about the picture of my d!ck I sent them, and actually takes my shirt off at some point. Sh!t starts to go a little crazy after that. The original girl is sick from drinking too much and the blonde gets a call from someone saying her grandfather fell down some steps and is in the hospital so she starts crying in the next room. The original girl tells me they have to go to the hospital (so I have to leave).. Bummer.

I get up to put my shirt back on and sit next to the brunette, who's the only one in the room with me at this point lmao. There's obvious and strong sexual tension. We talk for a minute, I start to lightly touch her hair/brush her hair off her shoulder then I tell her to "come here.." She says something like "no, you're supposed to be getting with my friends, I'm just an extra," in a soft voice. It's obvious she wants it so I go in for the kiss and we make out. After, she puts her number in my phone, walks me out, we make out again and I leave. Going to contact them all soon and hopefully I'll be f*cking all three of them in the near future.

Thought I'd share since this was an "interesting" experience for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WOW! hahaha that is amazing! How do you go that far on PoF? Most of the girls I've messaged are wack!
 

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IamJosan said:
WOW! hahaha that is amazing! How do you go that far on PoF? Most of the girls I've messaged are wack!
It IS hard to get a lot of the girls to meetup (for a date or f*ck). Just gotta trudge on and find the ones that are willing to meet.

runner83 said:
:rockon:

Pity it didn't go all the way tho.

Should definitely plan for a reschedule.
Gonna contact them tomorrow and try to schedule it again for Friday or Sunday. Hopefully it'll be easier to make plans now that we've all met.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow... My mood is completely different today. I've been stressed out because of an English paper I have to work on but I think this rejection is actually starting to get to me. I've had a hundred times more success this year than last year, but it seems the more success I get, the more I want/think I should get. I Messaged two girls about going out next week, as soon as I suggest a day/time to meet up they don't respond. Also messaged about 4-6 other girls, including the girl who gave me her number yesterday after we made out.. NONE of them responded to me. Seriously.. NONE of them. I didn't think it would happen, but the rejection, mixed with my stress, is making me feel pretty f*cking depressed right now. I promised myself I'd never feel like this again, but it's creeping up on me.
 
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