"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Met a Colombian girl: can anyone give me any general pointers on dating Latinas?

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Recently I went out on a short date with a Colombian girl. I do not really know an awful lot about the culture and what the girls are like. Ive heard from a friend they are very romantic and possessive.

But Im not sure what the best way to seduce her is. Usually I mix up a bit of ****y-funny with being a challenge. But she's said that she thinks English guys are cold and too reserved....so playing hard to get may be counter-productive with this girl.

I hear that Latin guys are very macho and tend to be jerks? In that case would I do better to come across as the English gentleman...without being too much of a nice guy or a wussy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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viking22 said:
I hear that Latin guys are very macho and tend to be jerks? In that case would I do better to come across as the English gentleman...without being too much of a nice guy or a wussy.
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You would come out looking better if you show you aren't too concerned about trying to please her. Try to find an activity where you are most comfortable in while making sure its both fun for you and the girl.

Maybe she likes the fact that you are different then the guys she dated back home, don't sell yourself short ( I am sure you are bringing some good qualities that are lacking in the guys she used to dating). However some facts about attraction's are universal in nature and being assertive and masculine looking are considered by many women as positive traits for males in every culture.
 
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As a Cuban, let me teach you a trick about latin women.




ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME! THEY WANT THE SAME THING FROM MEN THAT OTHER WOMEN WANT!
 
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