Met a Colombian girl: can anyone give me any general pointers on dating Latinas?

[viking22]

Recently I went out on a short date with a Colombian girl. I do not really know an awful lot about the culture and what the girls are like. Ive heard from a friend they are very romantic and possessive.

But Im not sure what the best way to seduce her is. Usually I mix up a bit of ****y-funny with being a challenge. But she's said that she thinks English guys are cold and too reserved....so playing hard to get may be counter-productive with this girl.

I hear that Latin guys are very macho and tend to be jerks? In that case would I do better to come across as the English gentleman...without being too much of a nice guy or a wussy.

 

[DJDamage]

I hear that Latin guys are very macho and tend to be jerks? In that case would I do better to come across as the English gentleman...without being too much of a nice guy or a wussy.

You would come out looking better if you show you aren't too concerned about trying to please her. Try to find an activity where you are most comfortable in while making sure its both fun for you and the girl.

Maybe she likes the fact that you are different then the guys she dated back home, don't sell yourself short ( I am sure you are bringing some good qualities that are lacking in the guys she used to dating). However some facts about attraction's are universal in nature and being assertive and masculine looking are considered by many women as positive traits for males in every culture.

 

[Bling]

As a Cuban, let me teach you a trick about latin women.




ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME! THEY WANT THE SAME THING FROM MEN THAT OTHER WOMEN WANT!