"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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met a chick in class today

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I was sitting in a big lecture room today for one of my classes. I knew that I had my buddy and his girlfriend in there with me, but I wasn't sitting with them because I didn't see them when I walked in.

So then two hot little girls came in and sat two seats down from me. Even though they were plenty of seats open. I opened with the one sitting closest to me kidding around telling her that she better be smart because I'm gonna cheat off her and stuff.

Well then she said that she would sit next to me in lab, which unfortunately got canceled today.

After class I told my friend and his girlfriend that I would sit with them next class.

Should I sit with them or should I sit in the same spot I did today? I was thinking the girls would sit in the same spot the next class, but should I sit with my friends and make it look like I'm not desperate?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why not sit in the same spot, but get your friends to sit with you too?

Doesn't seem too complicated to me...
 
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Great advice. I was gonna say, sit with your friends in hope that the girls would sit next to you. That way if they don't decide to sit with you, then you still have your friends.
 
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