Messing up the approach

[ChocolateVanilla]

So I approached a HB on the street and she loved my opener and was completely into me and showing a lot of IOI's. And then I may have said something that startled her or made her uncomfortable (perhaps a joke I made), and she seemed to lose complete interest. But she gave me her phone number with reluctant body language and left. So in your guy's experience, even with good initial attraction, is there anything left I can salvage from this approach (assuming the number is even real)?.

 

[rsaini]

first impression is generally the last impression... but u should definitely try... cos the girl definitely didn't put u in her rejection list

 

[ChocolateVanilla]

first impression is generally the last impression... but u should definitely try... cos the girl definitely didn't put u in her rejection list

Well, I guess so, it's just that everytime I get a girl's number without building good rapport, I usually end up getting flaked on. But this time, she actually seemed really interested in the beginning and was giving massive IOI's. I think one of my C+F statements/story hit a wrong spot. Any idea how I should cover this up in a phone convo?

 

[Bvbidd]

What did you say?

 

[ChocolateVanilla]

What did you say?

I think the story I told made her feel uncomfortable, but I'm not entirely sure cuz I talked more than I usually do. I'm just wondering if the impression she had of me when I got her number determines the course or if a great first impression overcomes that.

 

[Real]

do it 100 more times, and you'll learn what you should and shouldnt say