"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Messenger Bag with Brown blazer and shoes

warrior1

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I heard wearing brown and black is a no-no but thats when they say black shoes and brown belt or vice versa.


My question is can you wear brown shoes/brown belt and a brown blazer but carry a BLACK messenger bag? Or would brown be the best thing? Not sure if this has been discussed before.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dude nobody really gives a damn...unless you're going to a job interview...in which case, bring a goddamn briefcase
 

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WTF!! do you really need a purse? Guess its good to keep your tampons in
 

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Your just askin for bad comments on this one bro........Ask your broad, she should be able to help you out hella lot more then these internet addicts ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheNewGuy said:
You're asking us what color your purse should be?
You're a fvcking child.

mpimpin said:
WTF!! do you really need a purse? Guess its good to keep your tampons in
You're no better.

I have 3 messenger bags. One canvas for my gym stuff, one brown leather and one black leather. Am I a b!tch? Fvck you both.

Brother Warrior1, disregard feeble mindedness and immaturity and lack of style / class. I interchange my bags on a whim just to see what looks good.

Who gives a flying fvck about what anyone thinks. If you like it, do it.
 
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