"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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  • Who else is dating a girl 25 years younger? (besides Trump)
  • Who is dating an actual HB9 model? (besides Trump)
  • Who is dating the hottest girl they ever dated? (besides Trump)
  • Who is about to take some of the sexiest photos ever taken?
Raise your hand if you would dump such a girl.

Again, you like to pretend that unless a girl magically commits, and meets your random standards of "undamaged" that she should be dumped.

Until you show us a hotter girl who is more loyal to you, you're simply declaring standards that are too high to meet (see Tenacity - but at least he confesses).

This thread was a case study of a girl who I messed up with and restored things with and in this thread I've clarified some issues that I've learned over many years. Sorry if you thought it wasn't worth reading because my girl wasn't told by her stepfather to marry me and wear a burka after the first date.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Proverbs 16:18King James Version (KJV)
18 Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.
She just texted me and is having her hair done for our photo shoot in a few hours and this person is acting like it's the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.

As the forum member who is most likely dating the hottest and (relatively) youngest HB9+ girl, I will tell you how it goes. I don't have much experience dating girls in this league and (odds are) neither do you, but I'm at least mapping out a relatively successful path for the rest of you. I understand if you would prefer not to try and compete at this level, and why you might prefer I simply resign the task.

Many members pretend they'd blow one of the greatest lovers they ever had if she didn't meet their impossibly high standards. Yeah. That's why they're not with an HB9+ 21 year old model. They choose not to be.
 

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She just texted me and is having her hair done for our photo shoot in a few hours and this person is acting like it's the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.

As the forum member who is most likely dating the hottest and (relatively) youngest HB9+ girl, I will tell you how it goes. I don't have much experience dating girls in this league and (odds are) neither do you, but I'm at least mapping out a relatively successful path for the rest of you. I understand if you would prefer not to try and compete at this level, and why you might prefer I simply resign the task.

Many members pretend they'd blow one of the greatest lovers they ever had if she didn't meet their impossibly high standards. Yeah. That's why they're not with an HB9+ 21 year old model. They choose not to be.
Pics or it didn't happen.

You had an AFC moment which you accepted and made amends too. The moral of this post is, that even DJs have their off days.

Everything else in between is irrelevant.
 

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She just texted me and is having her hair done for our photo shoot in a few hours and this person is acting like it's the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.

As the forum member who is most likely dating the hottest and (relatively) youngest HB9+ girl, I will tell you how it goes. I don't have much experience dating girls in this league and (odds are) neither do you, but I'm at least mapping out a relatively successful path for the rest of you. I understand if you would prefer not to try and compete at this level, and why you might prefer I simply resign the task.

Many members pretend they'd blow one of the greatest lovers they ever had if she didn't meet their impossibly high standards. Yeah. That's why they're not with an HB9+ 21 year old model. They choose not to be.
Your post is all brag. Go away already.
 

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In an ironic twist, yesterday she said she got the flu and told me at the last minute. I told her I wasn't going to push her away again. Suddenly it was all hearts in her replies. She didn't want to do the photo shoot but came over and (while really being under the weather) just sat on my lap and hugged me for hours.

Her key line: "If you had wanted to take a break, sure, but for you to have ended it?? That really hurt me." I promised I would never end the relationship that way again, that she would have to be the one to end it. We agreed we will be friends for life no matter what.

Also, she instantly noticed I've been working out. She couldn't stop caressing me. She said I had less nervous energy, and complimented me more times than in our previous 4 months combined (that's not saying much as she is sparse with flattery).

It ended up being the most fun I ever had with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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