"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Messed up leg

arodinpinstripes

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I recently dislocated my knee in football and I'm on crutches for a week or so. I hang out w/ the popular crowd and everything but I hardly ever get any.
Is there a right way to use my injury to my advantage, I've heard it's been done.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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08aisaac

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Smart thinking, but seriously? I wouldn't try hooking up with a bad injury.

It might make it worse.
 

arodinpinstripes

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its not that bad, it's popped back in and I can almost walk on it its just the muscle is stretche so i cant risk pulling or tearing anything
 

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instead of saying you got it from football, say you broke your leg while saving puppies from a burning building. lol I said this when I broke my wrist and its guaranteed to get a laugh
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
instead of saying you got it from football, say you broke your leg while saving puppies from a burning building. lol I said this when I broke my wrist and its guaranteed to get a laugh
pure genius
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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