Messed around this the girl. Can someone analyze this situation?

[aix237]

So I messed around with this girl on friday. We met through a mutual friend ran some MM on her a couple of times. We exchanged numbers and she was the one to contact me on friday and we went out to the bars. Continued running some MM on her, got pretty tipsy and went back to my friends house.

I was pretty drunk and she was also. we started messing around and I told her I dont know if im going to be able to do work. I put on a condom and couldnt do anything. We made out a bunch/fingered her etc. I also said I wish i was sober and she said me too cause i cant perform either or whatever. Then i said we should hang out tommorrow when were sober and she agreed. We woke up but it wasnt going to work cause each of us had stuff to do. She said call me tonight.

I texted her that night and told her to call me when she gets downtown. She called me and told me where she was at. I go to meet her up maybe like 1.5 hours later with a couple of my friends. I walk up to her and shes with her friend. I give a quick hug and say whats up. literally 30 seconds after i start talking to her, her friend said lets go smoke so she says are you guys going to stay her. I said yea. After they went to smoke my friends and i hung out for about 5 mintues more they all wanted to leave so i said fvck it and left with them.

At 145 am the girl calls me. i answer
Her: hey whered you go?
Me: my friends house
Her: Oh just wanted to make sure you got home
Me: you going to come over
Her: i dont know i have to drop my friend off, maybe after.
Me: well you should tell me now (i was tired and didnt feel like staying up)
Her: ill just call you after i drop off my friend
Me: Ok

at 3 am she calls
Me: you just drop off your friend
her: yep
Me: you comin over
her: no im tired and have to sleep
me: ok well get home safe

This girl is a cool girl to hang out with. I know she has other dudes callin at her so I dont know what to do. I wanna call or text her during this week just to say whats up and maybe set up something for saturday. But i feel it will look needy and or it will look like im attached. Should i just wait to see if she calls me this weekend or say whats up to her like on wed. and set up something for saturday. I just dont want to look needy. shes flirty and could be giving a little resistance, im not sure though, what should i do?

 

[Andromax]

Don't call her, she will call you. She did it once, if she likes you she will again.

If you don't hear from her, call her in like a week.

 

[aix237]

yea you have to be the prize for sure but if you wait too long the line will go slack i think. im thinking i might call her on monday do some pair bonding and say some sh!t like

"hey blah blaah.... I really dont know what youve done to me dont get a big head, but for some reason i really wanted to call you saturday night to make sure you got home safely and didnt die.....i couldnt call you because after i talked to you my phone blah blah blah blah blah.....oh sh!t hey i gotta answear this call and handle this situation for my friend (dhv) ill call you back. Then i wont call back. this way my value should get higher and shell be like wtf he didtn call back. and this should make her call me this weekened.

 

[MooseGod]

I wouldn't go to all that trouble man. Chicks know when you're lying. I'd give it 'till next weekend when you're out partying again...if you're as "high value" as you claim then you'll be busy getting stuff done all week. Then when you call her tell her the truth...you were pretty busy all week and didn't get much of a chance to call her.

If you guys both had a good time, she'll probably be back. If not, then on to the next one.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I wouldn't get too discouraged yet. You brought your friends she brought her friend. Everybody had plans and you two meeting up didn't work out. Which, is why you don't bring friends along when; you're trying to get laid. Make sure it's just you and her the next time!