"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Merry Christmas?

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Hello,
Merry Christmas every one and all the best in the new year. as we start the holidays one thing to keep in mind holidays are for families and children. so lets keep the booze to a minimum better still lets not drink at all and enjoy the holiday. and remember if we must drink
DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OzyBoy

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Merry christmas. I would not say no booze as that would be a bit boring. :eek: :D :moon:
 

theunflushables

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Happy Festivus!
 

fertileTurtle

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i'll be the ddd this year
 

mpimpin

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nice post lets all have a safe Christmas and New Year!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theunflushables

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fertileTurtle said:
i'll be the ddd this year
Designated Drunk Driver?
 
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