I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Merry Christmas... and a happy Anything Else.Freddy1 said:I know this is off topic.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DJDamage said:This is sosuave damn it, it should be coming from a hot chick!
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/341182/merry_merry_chistmas_from_annika/
Damit! She's nice! :rock:DJDamage said:This is sosuave damn it, it should be coming from a hot chick!
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/341182/merry_merry_chistmas_from_annika/
Yeah we love you too! :trouble: Just kidding!THE_ADDMAN said:*sniff* I love you all!
but not as much as I love her![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
she's from Sweden :woo:DJDamage said:This is sosuave damn it, it should be coming from a hot chick!
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/341182/merry_merry_chistmas_from_annika/
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I thought it was in the spring at some unspecified time. ?!?bbestar said:Im now happy and grateful that I have found the truth.
The truth that the date of September 16 is the actual birth date of the Lord Christ Jesus of Nazareth born in Bethlehem.
wordSkilla_Staz said:that girl talks too damn much
"hey, I swallow" would be good enough for me