"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Merry Christmas! Happy New Year

Von

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Hey DJ

I am wishing you all Merry Christmas!

Also Happy New Year in Advance!

Thanks for all the informative and growth sharing, the discussions it seems we can only have here. The added value of this forum

Thanks you all for the great year.

Wish you all the best, and that next year no matter the challenges ahead... Next Year will be for everyone: À Good year and a Better one!

The best is always ahead, Let's take in
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atom Smasher

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I echo that sentiment. Merry Christmas to all who celebrate, and Happy Holidays to those who don't.
 
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