ok so theres this girl...
she goes to my uni and last semester she (finally) noticed me and i could see her interest peaking as she would glance at me and blah blah send out the signals. well it turns out we have a class together this semester and she started talking to me on the first day. everything is sweet right, she is smiley and happy when i talk to her, plays with her hair alot etc etc. and i'm already deeply infatuated at this point (for awhile actually). then on the second class together i ask her what she did on the weekend and she's like:
"hmm, i can't even remember.. oh yea, i picked up my parents from the airport... oh and it was my boyfriend's birthday."
hit me straight in the heart, i tell u man, i felt it. but i acted cool and talked for abit before i left class... the following days until i saw her again were a nightmare.. constant questioning of myself (am i not good enough? is she not attracted to me?) and then the next class i have with her (last tuesday, last time i saw her) she comes up to me and starts chatting like we are great friends or whatever and yeh, she's still sending out the signals (from my extensive surveilence of her last semester, i'm led to believe she is actually quite shy and NOT the attention seeking, **** teasin type). so i'm trying to be casual and show minimal interest, but at the same time be polite enough to keep her around. god, she is like the cutest, hottest, sweetest creature ever. i want her so bad and its driving me insane. i ask her her about her weekend again and her reply: "oh.. nothing special." she doesn't mention him again.
ok, so here's how i see the boyfriend thing:
1) She does indeed have a boyfriend and subtley informed me to let me know. Still possibly interested.
2) She doesn't have a boyfriend and has decided she doesn't want to pursue anything physical with me and its her way of letting me know without hurting me (yeh, thanks babe..)
3) She doesn't have a boyfriend, she is attracted, but she would prefer to be friends before anything else happens.
4) She doesn't have a boyfriend and she (god forbid) is playing with me to see how i will react.
and yeh, i know, oneitis is a *****, but i believe i've kept my cool and she hasn't caught on. there are other girls that dig me, but i want this one!
so please, what is your take on this?
she goes to my uni and last semester she (finally) noticed me and i could see her interest peaking as she would glance at me and blah blah send out the signals. well it turns out we have a class together this semester and she started talking to me on the first day. everything is sweet right, she is smiley and happy when i talk to her, plays with her hair alot etc etc. and i'm already deeply infatuated at this point (for awhile actually). then on the second class together i ask her what she did on the weekend and she's like:
"hmm, i can't even remember.. oh yea, i picked up my parents from the airport... oh and it was my boyfriend's birthday."
hit me straight in the heart, i tell u man, i felt it. but i acted cool and talked for abit before i left class... the following days until i saw her again were a nightmare.. constant questioning of myself (am i not good enough? is she not attracted to me?) and then the next class i have with her (last tuesday, last time i saw her) she comes up to me and starts chatting like we are great friends or whatever and yeh, she's still sending out the signals (from my extensive surveilence of her last semester, i'm led to believe she is actually quite shy and NOT the attention seeking, **** teasin type). so i'm trying to be casual and show minimal interest, but at the same time be polite enough to keep her around. god, she is like the cutest, hottest, sweetest creature ever. i want her so bad and its driving me insane. i ask her her about her weekend again and her reply: "oh.. nothing special." she doesn't mention him again.
ok, so here's how i see the boyfriend thing:
1) She does indeed have a boyfriend and subtley informed me to let me know. Still possibly interested.
2) She doesn't have a boyfriend and has decided she doesn't want to pursue anything physical with me and its her way of letting me know without hurting me (yeh, thanks babe..)
3) She doesn't have a boyfriend, she is attracted, but she would prefer to be friends before anything else happens.
4) She doesn't have a boyfriend and she (god forbid) is playing with me to see how i will react.
and yeh, i know, oneitis is a *****, but i believe i've kept my cool and she hasn't caught on. there are other girls that dig me, but i want this one!
so please, what is your take on this?