progressive1
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It's obvious that it's winter in most of the US. What do u DJ' s mentally work on to get prepared for summer fun with the females
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mental game
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
DJ's are prepared always. Seasons don't matter. Go read the DJ bible http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
You have much to learn it seems.
You have much to learn it seems.
progressive1: a brief and rather broad answer to your question is that in order to be loved by women, you need to love yourself. And when I say that I REALLY mean love yourself... Do you love your physical appearance? Do you love your sense of humor? Do you love the way you are able to speak to a woman? (All the aspects about yourself that you have control over)
Take these few qualities that I have mentioned, along with others that you may think of, and sharpen them up.. keep sharpening them till summer..
Come summer you'll be a deadly weapon, unstoppable!
Take these few qualities that I have mentioned, along with others that you may think of, and sharpen them up.. keep sharpening them till summer..
Come summer you'll be a deadly weapon, unstoppable!