"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mental game

progressive1

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It's obvious that it's winter in most of the US. What do u DJ' s mentally work on to get prepared for summer fun with the females
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Climax

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progressive1: a brief and rather broad answer to your question is that in order to be loved by women, you need to love yourself. And when I say that I REALLY mean love yourself... Do you love your physical appearance? Do you love your sense of humor? Do you love the way you are able to speak to a woman? (All the aspects about yourself that you have control over)

Take these few qualities that I have mentioned, along with others that you may think of, and sharpen them up.. keep sharpening them till summer..

Come summer you'll be a deadly weapon, unstoppable! ;)
 
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