Mental focus is the KEY.

[Febreze]

In my opinion, the mentality you have is the soul decider of whether you will get dates or not.

If you can train your MIND to not be as intimidated, it will help you more than you can imagine. And anyone can do this.


This is going to sound a little crazy, and i know a lot of people will reject this advice, but trust me, the few that take it will she DRASTIC changes in their mentality.

Read a few sports psychology books, especially ones written about golf. Read books about tiger woods mentality, read books on sports mental toughness. There is a book called "Tiger Traits" i have read several times that is just genius. The book is about how tiger woods approaches life and his mentality, and it is just BRILLIANT. Read these kinds of books, TRUST me.

Now, what does this have to do with women directly? Nothing. But the mentality these kind of books can give you is priceless. Not only the confidence and feeling of no fear, but to be able to TURN these feelings on and off at will. They will teach you to get in the ZONE.

I expect negative replies, but trust me, those smart enough to think outside the box and try this are going to have a life changing experience. This has helped me more than anything be as successful with women as i am today.

 

[slaog]

You're 100% correct. Its the opposite way of doing things to learning PUA material.

 

[Interceptor]

So basically, your advice is to read a book?
Im sorry, but where's the advice here?

 

[Exhumed]

He's right but I don't think people need to read a book to get the right mentality. And i think training fod a sport is much diffdrent; you have to be INTENSE whereas succeeding with girls is more about relaxing and having fun, thinking you're the sh!t rather than trying desperately to become the sh!t.
I used to go into it looking at it like a challenge to overcome and that just makes you nervous.