"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mental Dating

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Wow, I'm always reading your posts now. That whole post where you were going through your kino progression was AWESOME.

I suggest you make a tip of somehting like
"Kino escalation in a movie"

The arm around her thing was money, and I like the close your eyes too. The are you uncomfortable is good too. She won't say no probably, because that would be mean. And then she just rationalizes it in her mind that she IS comfortable. Sweet.

Good Post. I like how detailed you were.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was referring to your reply post actually. I went back and read your original post and may try this "mental dating" though it seems time consuming to type it out. I've done it with dates in the past on the car ride over and it really did help.

What are some of your favorite books on this type of success visualization, and do you have any ebooks? PM me.
 
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