"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, I'm always reading your posts now. That whole post where you were going through your kino progression was AWESOME.

I suggest you make a tip of somehting like
"Kino escalation in a movie"

The arm around her thing was money, and I like the close your eyes too. The are you uncomfortable is good too. She won't say no probably, because that would be mean. And then she just rationalizes it in her mind that she IS comfortable. Sweet.

Good Post. I like how detailed you were.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was referring to your reply post actually. I went back and read your original post and may try this "mental dating" though it seems time consuming to type it out. I've done it with dates in the past on the car ride over and it really did help.

What are some of your favorite books on this type of success visualization, and do you have any ebooks? PM me.
 
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