I just joined this forum and started reading this website. I've been reading and watching videos on how to approach and meet women for almost a year now and I've only been able to approach handful of times with the help of a wingman, I've been trying a very long time to teach myself to go up and approach in public during daily life. I'll get into a great mindset, but as soon as the actual situation comes up I can't get myself to take action. This has been going on for a long time and I don't know how to break out of this mindset. I'm here because I think that community and interacting with people who 'get it' will help me. I want to be able to go up to the girls I see every day, and I don't mind being rejected. What creates a downward psychological drift for me is the repeated failure of myself for ever being able to actually do what I want to do in this situation. I'm open to any and all advice to get past this.