"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mental barriers and being self concious

funnyperson

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Hey. Im 16 and im getting braces soon... i already have glasses... This just sets up mental barriers and makes me more self concious. It feels like its impossible to go for a gal because wearing braces and glasses isn't the most attractive thing in the world. How do people overcome these mental barriers? Is it possible to use this to my advantage? (Highly unlikely lol). Im confident but somehow i dont think thats enough in my case lol.

Any advice to overcome the matter?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WC2

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You're 16 bro. Don't sweat the small stuff, it's the #1 mistake all youngings make (including myself at one time). First of all, braces aren't that bad. Half the kids your age havem, and you're gona love it when you get to your best years and you've got great teeth.

As far as glasses go, if you're really that uncomfortable, why not wear contacts?

The best advice I can give ya is to relax and realize that when you're young, everyone is insecure and things that are really not a big deal appear to be.
 

G_Nice_06

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Yeah man I completely agree with WC2, glasses really aren't that bad unless they are Huge and thick and in that case i would recomend getting a smaller pair or some contacts. I had a pair of big ass glasses once and felt the same way u did it makes u feel much better when u get some smaller glasses or just replace them. but the braces really not that bad alot of my friends pull plenty of fine girls while they have their braces so don't worry about it.
 
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