"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mental barriers and being self concious

funnyperson

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Hey. Im 16 and im getting braces soon... i already have glasses... This just sets up mental barriers and makes me more self concious. It feels like its impossible to go for a gal because wearing braces and glasses isn't the most attractive thing in the world. How do people overcome these mental barriers? Is it possible to use this to my advantage? (Highly unlikely lol). Im confident but somehow i dont think thats enough in my case lol.

Any advice to overcome the matter?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WC2

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You're 16 bro. Don't sweat the small stuff, it's the #1 mistake all youngings make (including myself at one time). First of all, braces aren't that bad. Half the kids your age havem, and you're gona love it when you get to your best years and you've got great teeth.

As far as glasses go, if you're really that uncomfortable, why not wear contacts?

The best advice I can give ya is to relax and realize that when you're young, everyone is insecure and things that are really not a big deal appear to be.
 

G_Nice_06

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Yeah man I completely agree with WC2, glasses really aren't that bad unless they are Huge and thick and in that case i would recomend getting a smaller pair or some contacts. I had a pair of big ass glasses once and felt the same way u did it makes u feel much better when u get some smaller glasses or just replace them. but the braces really not that bad alot of my friends pull plenty of fine girls while they have their braces so don't worry about it.
 
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