"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mental associations

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Hi, I have just thought. Since I used to spend a lot of time chatting to my ex on the dreaded msn I built up an association. Her (at a great loss without me) and my pc (something I use to study and listen to music from, love music).

I also notice that when relaxing, talking, watching tv my mind makes word and picture associations, its like I am really good at word association!
Can this be a bad thing?


Are there any effective ways of disassociating things?

Im still working on my game and being patient, gonna get some numbers tonight hopefully!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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delete one of these! I do not know how this occurred 8)
 
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Move on.

We all have associations with things - nothing really abnormal that they have become sticky. Get new associations. (ie. move on)
 
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