"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mental associations

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Hi, I have just thought. Since I used to spend a lot of time chatting to my ex on the dreaded msn I built up an association. Her (at a great loss without me) and my pc (something I use to study and listen to music from, love music).

I also notice that when relaxing, talking, watching tv my mind makes word and picture associations, its like I am really good at word association!
Can this be a bad thing?


Are there any effective ways of disassociating things?

Im still working on my game and being patient, gonna get some numbers tonight hopefully!

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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delete one of these! I do not know how this occurred 8)
 
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Move on.

We all have associations with things - nothing really abnormal that they have become sticky. Get new associations. (ie. move on)
 
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