"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Men's Cuddling Group

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The guy in the middle of the picture looks effeminated enough to be gay.
 
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Desdinova said:
I found something for you guys who persist at online dating and are coming out with no dates:

https://www.inquirer.com/health/men-cuddling-group-healing-trauma-mental-health-20190325.html?__vfz=medium=sharebar&fbclid=IwAR1UdIeY9jsqyufyAAyOU5hEpx9LT8KVJvyUkswVGhfrck65rY4XJvtQryc


Twice a month, half a dozen men gather in Plymouth Meeting to help each other work through past traumas.
Their chosen method of healing? Cuddles.
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just saw the first picture, I nearly puked
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's gay, but whatever works for them. Too much soy for my taste.
 
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I didn't think gay men stayed in the closet anymore.
 
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I bet there are women out there that would consider these guys “alpha males”. I’m not even joking.
 
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I see so that is what happen when gay men don't want to tell everyone they are gay

Robert28 said:
I bet there are women out there that would consider these guys “alpha males”. I’m not even joking.
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saying that is easy that keep the agenda going, but wanting to have sex with then, that is something will never happen
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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