Men- Will you date a girl who prefers to be virgin till marriage?

[princess_124]

Well, a lot of guys here are complaining that girls are very s1utty and spoiled nowadays. I believe they are hanging out with the wrong crowd. We religious girls are MUCH nicer than Athiest/liberal girls. So, what do you guys think!

By virgin, I mean to say no sexual contact at all (no oral, intercourse, or anal)

 

[Married Buried]

Do you like anal?

 

[Robert28]

I had one of those uber religious girls tell me onetime that she was "waiting until marriage" too. Turns out a couple months later she was banging the youth minister.

 

[Eph]

Well, a lot of guys here are complaining that girls are very s1utty and spoiled nowadays.

There's a reason for that.

I believe they are hanging out with the wrong crowd

Who are you more likely to notice: the crowd of people all wearing the same thing, or the one person wearing something different?

Put simply: The majority of women now are very slutty (or at least act like it) and have an undeserving sense of entitlement.

We religious girls are MUCH nicer than Athiest/liberal girls. So, what do you guys think!

Back in middle school, I knew a girl that was all gung-ho on saving herself until marriage. That didn't last long. Me and my closest friends later found out she lost her virginity during middle school. The last time I spoke to her (a few years ago now), we were having a conversation about something unrelated and she told me, "what can I say? I like sex". I said to her: what happened to saving yourself until marriage? She said, "that was a long time ago".

Point being, religious women (at least Christians. I don't know about Jews and Muslims) are just as fvcked up as most other women. Why do you keep asking these ridiculous questions anyway? Instead of being a typical female (assuming you are actually one) and trying to force others to agree with your nonsense, why not open your blind eyes and see things for what they really are? The problem isn't that we hang around clubs and bars, meet slutty women, and then want to complain about it. There are plenty of guys here that meet women in normal, everyday places and still can't find the pure, innocent princesses you still think exist.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

I'll put it like this: I'm down to wait, so long as she's not being hypocritical about it or teasing me like we MIGHT have sex, only to not have it go down. If a girl is trying to wait til she's married I can respect that (heck, prior to me being 23 I was trying to do the same thing). However, I dated this girl one time that was trying to do that, but then she would do things like go down on me, or rent out a hotel for us to have time together only to not want to go all the way - THAT'S when the whole "sex til marriage" thing gets annoying, when they're doing things that have me thinking we'll do more and then they try to pull the "but I'm waiting" bit last minute. Either we're having sex or we're not, and either one is fine - but that saying one thing and tempting but not following through for another bit is frustrating as shiznit, and I don't tolerate it.

 

[princess_124]

Back in middle school, I knew a girl that was all gung-ho on saving herself until marriage. That didn't last long. Me and my closest friends later found out she lost her virginity during middle school. The last time I spoke to her (a few years ago now), we were having a conversation about something unrelated and she told me, "what can I say? I like sex". I said to her: what happened to saving yourself until marriage? She said, "that was a long time ago".

Point being, religious women (at least Christians. I don't know about Jews and Muslims) are just as fvcked up as most other women. Why do you keep asking these ridiculous questions anyway? Instead of being a typical female (assuming you are actually one) and trying to force others to agree with your nonsense, why not open your blind eyes and see things for what they really are? The problem isn't that we hang around clubs and bars, meet slutty women, and then want to complain about it. There are plenty of guys here that meet women in normal, everyday places and still can't find the pure, innocent princesses you still think exist.

Lol, middle school? Obviously everybody says they will stay virgin till they get married during that time!

Which state do you live in? I live in Missouri and knew a few girls from high school who said they don't want to have sex till marriage. This is my third year in university and those girls still are virgins....so yes, not all girls are like this. oh, and by the way, they are Christians. It's a requirement for Muslim and Jewish girls not to have premarital sex, so I think most of them, including me, still follow the rule.

All the unmarried girls at my mosque are virgins.

 

[Epimanes]

My wife was a virgin... We had sex prior to marriage but considered ourselves married already in our hearts...waited a year to have intercourse but pretty much did everything else but anal. Still no anal today as that's exit only (wife was 16 and I was 17 but we started dating when she was 15). Got married at 19... Now 35 and 36 with a 16yo daughter and 10yo son. Lots of up and downs... Many years of down.. But turned things around I guess cuz of our pair bonding from early years and not wanting to just throw it all away during the rough times.. Now kids are older and we can go back to being teenagers again and continue off where we started before kids arrived (for the most part).

Epi

 

[VladPatton]

Fück that program in particular! Every guy who ever dealt with a virgin knows they're batshıt crazy. Personally, I just love a story about a virgin going balls-out-whóre a few months after marriage because they love the banging so much. Now those are entertaining!

 

[Eph]

Lol, middle school? Obviously everybody says they will stay virgin till they get married during that time!

There are kids having sex in elementary school. So, what the hell do you mean "everyone" and "obviously"? I haven't heard anyone talk about waiting until marriage for years now. And I could have said high school, or college. Either way, the point still stands.

Which state do you live in? I live in Missouri and knew a few girls from high school who said they don't want to have sex till marriage. This is my third year in university and those girls still are virgins....so yes, not all girls are like this.

Of course, they say that. But, would you really know if by "sex" they actually meant penetration? Even if by some miracle, they're still virgins (in every sense possible), all it takes is Mr. Right's "love" for them to turn them into the biggest sluts you'll ever meet.

oh, and by the way, they are Christians. It's a requirement for Muslim and Jewish girls not to have premarital sex, so I think most of them, including me, still follow the rule.

All the unmarried girls at my mosque are virgins.

...It's a requirement for Christians not to have premarital sex too, genius. Just about every religion tries to prevent it. Doesn't mean everyone follows that "rule". What you think is the case, is not. I don't know how long you've lived in America, but for all our freedoms, we have some of the worst women in the world.

 

[logicallefty]

Well, a lot of guys here are complaining that girls are very s1utty and spoiled nowadays. I believe they are hanging out with the wrong crowd. We religious girls are MUCH nicer than Athiest/liberal girls. So, what do you guys think!

By virgin, I mean to say no sexual contact at all (no oral, intercourse, or anal)

When I was 33 I had a girlfriend who was 29. She said she was a virgin and from her demeanor and personality, I believed her. She loved me going down on her but she wanted to save sex for marriage. And I was ok with that.

On the other hand, had another GF who was 27 and said she fvcked 7 other guys before me. I was #8. She moved in with me, and all the sudden wanted to stop sex and wait until marriage before *WE* did it again. She lived in my house a week. For that and her professional level nagging that also started when she moved in, I kicked her out within a week and dumped her. I respect a "virgin", but not a "born again virgin". Big difference.

 

[bigneil]

Would I add insult to injury? No.

 

[princess_124]

A couple can certainly abstain from sex till they are further along in their commitment to one another. They can always approach sex as if it is sacred. That said, I do not think it is wise, and in the best interest of a successful marriage, for a couple to marry without knowing and experiencing if they are truly sexually compatible first.

No matter how much you love each other and are devoted and committed, a sexually incompatible couple will never truly be happy together. Marrying a virgin is not a worth risking the long to term happiness, for either party, in my opinion.

So, you mean in order for a couple to be successful, premarital sex is a must? How do you think married couples before the sexual revolution stayed together without divorce. That's just ridiculous !