Men who underachieve in dating (such as myself)

[bigdave17]

does it all come down to either not trying enough or not being confident enough/having strong enough inner game?

is it possible for a superficially strong man with quality inner self beliefs to still struggle in dating?

 

[sosousage]

no idea whats your problem



my biggest struggle here is that i am poor as a dog

and i often see girls going for betas on facebook cuz they have IT well paid job

they will get cucked but that doesnt matter


you say you have look, money, and personality


well your personality must suck ****s



also no offence but stop using muslim people as wingman



(if i am meeting woman who doesnt care about my money, she doesnt seem disgusted by my personlaity nor look, so these two are probably bad in your case)

 

[bigdave17]

no idea whats your problem



my biggest struggle here is that i am poor as a dog

and i often see girls going for betas on facebook cuz they have IT well paid job

they will get cucked but that doesnt matter


you say you have look, money, and personality


well your personality must suck ****s



also no offence but stop using muslim people as wingman



(if i am meeting woman who doesnt care about my money, she doesnt seem disgusted by my personlaity nor look, so these two are probably bad in your case)

my buddy isn't really muslim. His mom is christian but he has family who is Muslim

he looks more Spanish or Puerto Rican. He is very handsome with big muscles. Perfect wingman

 

[sosousage]

my buddy isn't really muslim. His mom is christian but he has family who is Muslim

he looks more Spanish or Puerto Rican. He is very handsome with big muscles. Perfect wingman

so maybe he was hotter than your boring turkey looking face and stole your target attention


now i think of it u look like turkey. black hair dark skin

 

[sosousage]

Lmao you are the ULTIMATE henpecked momma's boy

his personality must be disgusting.


hes thinking of his gay friends like they are role models

probably cant stop talking about them on date lmao

maybe women are turned off by this


ive never said a good word about any male, and never had a role model

 

[bigdave17]

so maybe he was hotter than your boring turkey looking face and stole your target attention


now i think of it u look like turkey. black hair dark skin

me and him look like we could be cousins. Black hair, dark skin

 

[zekko]

You're calling yourself an underachiever, like you assume that you deserve this fantasy woman of yours.
I got news for you, none of us deserve anything. All we deserve is whatever we go out and earn, and take.

You think the world owes you because you are always saying how awesome you are.
Pook said "I am the prize", but you take it to ridiculous heights. C0cky without the funny doesn't work.

 

[bigdave17]

You're calling yourself an underachiever, like you assume that you deserve this fantasy woman of yours.
I got news for you, none of us deserve anything. All we deserve is whatever we go out and earn, and take.

You think the world owes you because you are always saying how awesome you are.
Pook said "I am the prize", but you take it to ridiculous heights. C0cky without the funny doesn't work.

Considering I'm in the top 1% of financial standing, top 10% of looks and top 10% for social circle...yet I've never had a girlfriend, I'm a terrible underachiever for dating

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So there must be something your doing wrong?

 

[HankHill]

Considering I'm in the top 1% of financial standing, top 10% of looks and top 10% for social circle...yet I've never had a girlfriend, I'm a terrible underachiever for dating

So what actionable steps are you taking to fix your issue?

By now you must know whatever you've accomplished doesn't land you a hottie- because that hottie has two dozen other dudes on speed dial that are more attractive (to her). I use the term attractive as in attractive to her- which could be anything, looks, personality, money, status or any combination of it. For guys it's always going to be a numbers game, you have to hit on dozens and dozens of them (the hotter they are the more of them you need to hit on) to get one or two that will agree to go out with you on a date. The dates mean probationary period- if you can be charming and attractive (to her) you get more dates...which lead to something serious. But sitting and complaining will never lead you to what you're after. You have to take the initiative.