Men who refuse to take responsibility for children they help make...

[Wyldfire]

These guys have shown that they are a strain on tax payers and society. This isn't fair to the children who are neglected by the irresponsible men who father them. Children's rights are more important to protect than the rights or men or women because they can't care for themselves.

To prevent more of these kind of men from having more kids they won't support we need the laws changed.

If a man fathers a child and won't man up they should be sterilized by law so they aren't permitted to put any more of a burden on society and the tax paying citizens of this country.

 

[penkitten]

you know there are alot of women who should be sterilized also for the same thing.
i wish people in general especially a few on this board, would realise that child support isnt a gift to a woman.
child support is support from the absent parent.
it is used for things like help on rent, electric, water, gas, car insurance, food, clothing, medical attention, eye exams, tylenol, toliet paper, workbooks at school, baseball sign up fees, band insturments, bandaides, tide and etc. all of these items are things that children need. they need a roof over their heads and food in their tummys. a child should not have to wait to eat dinner, therefore child support should be paid by the absent parent on time.
if an absent parent does not pay, the parent that provides for the children ends up turning to the government for help.
this is bad for not only the taxpayers, but also sticks the kids on the system and in over half the cases, they never get off the systems. in fact, most of them grow up to raise their own kids on the systems which are not benifitting people for long periods of time. short periods, yes but not long ones.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

This reads like a post designed to anger the anti-feminist.

I think that society needs to teach both men and women responsibility. There isnt any excuse why anyone should conceive a child outside of marriage. There are so many options: birth control, condoms, the shot.....

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
This reads like a post designed to anger the anti-feminist.

I think that society needs to teach both men and women responsibility. There isnt any excuse why anyone should conceive a child outside of marriage. There are so many options: birth control, condoms, the shot.....

i agree with you however i do know that birth control isnt always one hundred percent either.

perhaps we all need to remember that we should pick the people we sleep with a little more carefully because they could end up raising your children.

 

[jiza101]

Wyldfire knew she would get a reaction, and she did... I think you should have talked about both sides of the argument, not just about "men" leaving women..

 

[Wyldfire]

pen, if a mother purposely doesn't do all she can to care for her child or uses abortion as her routine form of birth control or pawns her kids off on her parents then she should be sterilized too.

Frankly, I started this thread because I'm sick of all the men on here pissing and moaning over how "unfair" it is when they have unprotected sex or even when birth control fails and the woman won't just kill her own flesh and blood simply for his own convenience. We all know where babies come from and that it's a risk you take EVERY TIME you have sex, protected or not.

It's pathetic all this "wah, wah, wah...I don't want a kid...wah, wah, wah...women get pregnant on purpose to take men's money...wah, wah, wah."

You and I both know child support doesn't even cover half the costs of raising the kids and it sure as hell doesn't "set a woman up for life" as these knuckleheads think.

Childrens rights come first and that's why child support exists.

If these guys are so damn afraid of all these evil women intentionally getting pregnant then they should keep their peckers in their pants or get fixed.

If they are so dead set against taking responsibility for any child they help make they shouldn't be allowed to breed.

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
These guys have shown that they are a strain on tax payers and society. This isn't fair to the children who are neglected by the irresponsible men who father them. Children's rights are more important to protect than the rights or men or women because they can't care for themselves.

To prevent more of these kind of men from having more kids they won't support we need the laws changed.

If a man fathers a child and won't man up they should be sterilized by law so they aren't permitted to put any more of a burden on society and the tax paying citizens of this country.

Wyldfire is right, mutilating men is the solution. And a woman should be also mutilated instead of being allowed abortion.

 

[italostud]

Sterilization as a punishment if they don't live up to what Wyldfire's views of 'right and wrong' are....are you sure you're not related to Hitler in some way Wyld?

Btw, you just finished monopolizing a gigantic thread about this very same topic. The thread is actually still live and hasn't been locked. So what's the reason for a second one? How many words do you think you wrote in that other thread alone? Ten thousand? You need to let this go. You're starting to make yourself look kind of pathetic the way you're posting. You're also losing credibility and making yourself look like a middle aged housewife with nothing better to do than tell her life's story on a message board designed for young men to pick up women.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

What if the man doesn't want the child in the first place? Shouldn't he get a say on whether the child HE help created should be aborted/given for adoption?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Yawwwwwnmnn,.......

 

[Paradox]

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