"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Men who Mate-Guard: Anything More Pathetic?

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Zarky said:
My opinion is that mate-guarding among humans is more common than not. In fact, it's sort of socially accepted... QUITE socially accepted. Guys who don't mate-guard are usually looked upon kind of strangely.

Remember a time when I was at a bar with a chick (call her "X") I was dating and was talking with her friend. "X" was over talking with some other dude who was better looking, taller, more built than I. The friend pointed it out to me and I shrugged and tried to go back to the conversation she and I were having.

She said, "Aren't you going over to pull her away from that guy?" I shrugged again, played dumb and said, "Why would I do that?" knowing full well why most guys would do that. She seemed exasperated and later "X" told me that the friend had complained that I mustn't care for her all that much if I wasn't threatened by other men talking with her.

Kind of interesting.
This world would be a lot better place if men never listened to a woman's dating advice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zarky said:
My opinion is that mate-guarding among humans is more common than not. In fact, it's sort of socially accepted... QUITE socially accepted. Guys who don't mate-guard are usually looked upon kind of strangely.



.......Kind of interesting.
I'll take : What a woman would say who's pretending to be a man for 500 Alex.

zarky never fails to give her gynocentric angle, sneakily crafted with her own "personal anecdote". And as a matter of fact men who don't insecurely grab and fawn all over their women in public are actually "looked upon kind of strangely" you guize.

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