Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Men who go abroad to find women.

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What's the deal with men who go overseas to find women? Are they all overweight, nerdy, desperate control freaks who could never cut it in Western Society?

God some of the videos I've seen from international 'dating' services are loaded with lulz!

Check out Ilovelatins on youtube. Or Winston Wu's videos. (They may've been taken down.)

I watched Winston Wu's videos and that guy is a grade A loser. Couldn't restrain himself from calling every woman "hot". What a friggin pathetic perverted nerd.

Ilovelatins videos are nothing more than an escort service for desperate perverted morons who think they are 'real men'. Hilarious!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i live in ny and travel to the caribbean(dominican rep..puerto rico...jamaica aruba) quite frequently.

i dont go to find women ...the women find me:rockon:

i go for the weather....

i go because the dollar takes me further overseas than to waste it in vegas.

plus foreign women are generally hotter and better shape.
 

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Actually even the lonely and desperate types have mates in such countries and people still marry young and marry out of love. I ve never seen this many single men as in the West anywhere else.
 

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I can attest to having more fun overseas outside the US that is. Women are hotter (less of the obesity problems and such), look younger and are more willing in other parts of the world.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Actually even the lonely and desperate types have mates in such countries and people still marry young and marry out of love. I ve never seen this many single men as in the West anywhere else.
Yeah cause you can go out and drink and mingle at 18 in most parts of the world or younger if they don't enforce the age.

The US is conservative.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's the deal with men who go overseas to find women? Are they all overweight, nerdy, desperate control freaks who could never cut it in Western Society?
You could say that however I hope you don't equate that with being losers. In order to go abroad you need to have some money so these guys are definitely not dumb or losers. They are successful men that just don't want to put up with American women's bs.

Some might say that they are lazy in terms of not trying to work on themselves in order to get women from their native countries, while others like Jimbo might say that American women with their stupid attitude, self entitlement and feminist mindset are not worth fighting for. Specially when you can get a hot young woman in parts of the world where men are still treated like kings so why put up with all the bs from women of the western world?

I think there's truth to both sides however i don't think the guys abroad care what you think as they are having the time of their lives while you are here trying to figure out the girls here with all their games and what not. ;)

I think we owe it to ourselves to experience as many women as possible from all types of backgrounds. Jimbo does lay out a good plan enjoy women when you're young and when you're in your mid 40's marry a hot 20 year old that will treat you like a king.
 

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I want to go overseas to meet new woman. Not because I'm desperate but because it's always refreshing to see new girls. Them foreign girls be some of the most prettiest girls.
 

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I think there's truth to both sides however i don't think the guys abroad care what you think as they are having the time of their lives while you are here trying to figure out the girls here with all their games and what not. ;)
No time to waste on my part 'figuring out' what games women play. I already am well aware they are always testing. I find it amusing and ignore it or play dumb to it while I flip it on them. Drives them insane.

I think we owe it to ourselves to experience as many women as possible from all types of backgrounds. Jimbo does lay out a good plan enjoy women when you're young and when you're in your mid 40's marry a hot 20 year old that will treat you like a king.
I'm not talking about people who've travelled abroad to see new places and wind up meeting women in the process. I'm talking about men who specifically go international looking for women. I've travelled quite a few times abroad to see new places and have no problems meeting chicks in other countries as well as America.
 

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I want to go overseas to meet new woman. Not because I'm desperate but because it's always refreshing to see new girls. Them foreign girls be some of the most prettiest girls.

Oh there are definately loads of friendly intelligent hotties in many other countries. I will say it's a complete eye opener in their attitudes and intelligence. Though even having been overseas a few times and to other countries I'm not the one to expect to wife up someone who has her own life in her own country.
 

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What?

"Men going abroad to find women????"

I think the biggest problem with this is that too many men go looking for women but only wind up finding a "Broad".

Sorry...couldn't resist. lol

But seriously, no matter where a man finds women, there's no way in hell that he'll ever KEEP any of them if he fails to continue to be "a MAN" when he's WITH them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Not all of us are ideally suited for the situation we are born into. What's wrong with playing to your strengths?
 

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A man either has enough resources to keep a woman happy, or not.
 

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Depends. There are very legitimate reasons a man would seek out a foreign girlfriend.

I spend about 50% of my time working overseas in a developing country (however it is developed enough that there is a night-life and so on, i.e. things in the dating world which are familiar to westerners). I didn't come here to date the local girls, but they would turn anyone's head. :crazy:

The women in the country are educated, modest, kind, respectful of men, very well-dressed, and the majority of them take good care of themselves and have great figures. At no point would it even occur to these women to cross their man or act out of line. There is none of the bullsh*t, arrogance, active disdain, and general b*tchyness that causes so much unnecessary hassle for men in my home country.
 

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There is nothing wrong with finding a girlfriend, wife, or fvckbuddy abroad. But there is a problem with going abroad to find a girlfriend, wife, or fvckbuddy.

If you cannot get along with ANY women or men with your SAME culture, background, norms, and history the problem is YOU, not them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most of these guys don't know that they can do better and end up dating the first oversea's chick that puts out for them. Normally it's some uggo that the locals won't give the time of day to.
 
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