"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Men who chase simgle mommies - aren't you afraid of adding to her brood?

MatureDJ

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There was a thread about single mommies and how they are easy to bang, etc., that got me thinking - shouldn't these men be afraid about adding to the single mommy's collection? I think everyone understands that there are some women who try to trap a man by saying she is on the pill - and then later say that she had an "accident." :box: Certainly, a single mommy would love to have some beta guy entrenched in the family, and may want to take a chance on trapping a particularly beta-acting one.

I think that one of the old time forum members, Wyldfire I believe, had like 4 kids from different fathers. I just have to believe that every once in a while she was screwing a guy that she thought had beta potential, and let him knock her up to see if he would commit.

Or do these MILF chasers just wear a condom, even if the MILF says that a condom isn't needed?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wear a condom and pull out and blow on their t1ts, belly, face.....anywhere but inside them.
 

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I'm not sure how much you know about biology OP but just because a woman's had children doesn't make her more likely to get pregnant. Condoms are a MUST with EVERY woman I'm with; I don't know about these other guys but just cause a woman tells you something doesn't mean you have to believe it, wether its "I'm on the pill" or "I want to be with you forever" I always protect myself.
 

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Von_S said:
I'm not sure how much you know about biology OP but just because a woman's had children doesn't make her more likely to get pregnant. Condoms are a MUST with EVERY woman I'm with; I don't know about these other guys but just cause a woman tells you something doesn't mean you have to believe it, wether its "I'm on the pill" or "I want to be with you forever" I always protect myself.
The point I'm getting at is that at least with a maiden (i.e., childless, unmarried woman), if you knock her up, you have the ability to form a proper family, so the need to protect oneself is not as great.
 

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No condom and you know she's clean? tell her to turn around and bend over ...:eek:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've got a vasectomy, but I don't want any woman with kids, or any US woman, for that matter. Who needs the hassle? the kids (or their baby- sitter )are ALWAYS interfering with your action. There's plenty of women who have had enough sense to stay childless.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Condoms take away the feeling but save a lot of money in childsupport.
I wear two all week long, come Friday night I take one off, feel like a wild man :woo:

Seriously, most of the women I've dated are single moms and the last thing they want is to get pregnant again.

When I did have a few plates spinning (wet plates), none ever ever wanted children.

Is there a distinction about divorced moms with kids and moms with kids who have no father in the child's life?

SH
 

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^^^^^^
The difference is if you're dating older women with kids vs younger women with kids. If the woman is in her 40s or even late 30s and has three kids or something, they yes she probably won't "ooops" you or anyone else.

However if she's in her 20s or early 30s and has one kid, there's a greater likelihood of her doing it to snare a man.

However I have to say I was dating (banging) a woman in her early 40s once who was unmarried and with no kids, without protection, and she later told me that she was screwing a few guys and was waiting for one to knock her up so she could have a kid. She didn't seem the type who would then sue for child support but still that's a pretty f*cked up thing to do. Interestingly enough she never got pregnant.
 

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Zarky said:
^^^^^^
The difference is if you're dating older women with kids vs younger women with kids. If the woman is in her 40s or even late 30s and has three kids or something, they yes she probably won't "ooops" you or anyone else.

However if she's in her 20s or early 30s and has one kid, there's a greater likelihood of her doing it to snare a man.

However I have to say I was dating (banging) a woman in her early 40s once who was unmarried and with no kids, without protection, and she later told me that she was screwing a few guys and was waiting for one to knock her up so she could have a kid. She didn't seem the type who would then sue for child support but still that's a pretty f*cked up thing to do. Interestingly enough she never got pregnant.
Interesting. I have heard of women like this. I think they are pretty much unstable women who have figured out that they cannot keep a man, so they figure they'll get the kid and hopefully the man will have an extra reason to stick around - and if not, at least she'll have a kid an should support. I suppose it's not a whole lot different than simply getting married, knocked up and then quickly divorced.

And perhaps this particular woman has a harsh vaginal environment, and she's waiting to get a man who has virulent enough sp3rm to make its way to her target. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nope. I'm broke, I have a kid. I pay child support. I tell women upfront I will never get married. Any single mom messing with me is obviously only ln it for companionship and fun. She can oops all she wants, she's gonna know I have nothing to give her but hard dvck and bubble gum and I'm all out of bubblegum.
 
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