"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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men want quantity, women want a GOOD man

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see, no way for a man to be SURE a kid is his, so his best chance of passing on his genes is sex with lots of young, fertile gals. That "lizard brain" stuff has a lot to do with what you find to be attractive. It's also a status thing, to have lots of gals being your "partner." A woman needs help raising the kid, so she seeks to KEEP ONE guy, and since she is so limited, her status-seeking impulse leads her to seek out the BEST guy she can get/keep. So you young guys are blowing smoke, might as well just concentrate on learning something that women dig, like playing guitar, singing, dancing, or making big money at something. Better yet, get an Asian Lady. All she asks of you is that you GET her here, and she will do the rest. You have a 5 year "warranty" on her, because if she divorces you sooner than 5 years, or runs off, she's going to spend 6 months in jails/ICE holding pens, then get deported. They all know this, so they stand by you for 5 years, at least. You got a 5 year guarantee on any US woman? There's millions of loveley, smart Asians who will do nearly anything to get a US "green card, guys! Let these US gals KEEP that old thing. :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Is this the part where I'm supposed to pretend that I read all that, and then pay attention to you?
 

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Paragraphs are your friend. When writing, paragraphs are used as a break from one major topic to another.

Here is topic two (notice the paragraph break), what you wrote doesn't even make sense. It's all jumbled and all over the place. I think I understand what you're trying to say but it's very unclear. You go from "lizard brain" all the way to green cards.
 

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see, no way for a man to be SURE a kid is his

I stopped reading after this line... Thanks for the laugh by the way. Do you by any chance live in a cave? Did you ever even hear the word "science" before. Damn, I wonder how do you survive each day...

Edit: Actually, I read the rest of it now... You brought up a good topic. But what the hell? I don't like it when people bash on "american women", they can't be that bad. Isn't it true that you teach people how to treat you?

But you make a couple of good points, forget the asian thing, everyone, IMO. At least the title was good, however. I think I agree... Keep the discussion going, IMO! Why do woman not want to bang lots of men, we for example want multiple girls, that has always amazed me, you say it's because she needs a good guy to take care of the kid... Perhaps it is that! (I ignored the "she seeks the best guy for status" part, LOL, it makes much more sence she picks the best one because, I dunno, IT IS BETTER FOR HER SURVIVAL? Maybe, just maaaaaaaaybe is it because of that. hahaha). Still very confusing topic to me, tho. Ty for the post! ;)
 

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Groovy said:
Did you ever even hear the word "science" before. Damn, I wonder how do you survive each day...
I saw a wild science the other day. I almost took a picture of it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women want a "good" man. I supposed that's true but "good" man is such an intangible thing that neither women nor myself know what the heck that is.

Good at what? Making fig newtons?
 

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Kirro said:
Women want a "good" man. I supposed that's true but "good" man is such an intangible thing that neither women nor myself know what the heck that is.

Good at what? Making fig newtons?
I am not trying to side with that confused young OP pimp advertising Asian prostitutes or maybe even trying to justify his purchase of one.

But a Good Man is easily recognized by woman (reasonably sane one at least) even though she can't describe it exactly (confident, cool, funny bla bla). But We my friend should know what a Good man is. No complexes at least etc etc and strive for it.

Small hint to you and the OP. Good man does not allow his lizard mind (fear) get over him and search status by fvcking like rabbit. There were times when you had to take care of all your children....see no welfare. So if you was a jerk, making identity out of fvcking women left and right....relatives of pregnant girls chopped you to pieces.
 

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twixt: Maybe you should take your own advice and marry a woman who wants citizenship so that she can come to/stay in the US. Hell, you definitely don't need this website to do that!

The way his post was phrased, I was waiting for him to plug a website for finding Asian women looking for American husbands.
 

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A "good man" is a man that

1. Will ignore her history of jumping on every bad boy she could get in her 20's and early 30's
2. Ignore her "girls night out" every saturday where she would often puke due to so much drinking and she would consider that a "fun night out" (she probably has pics of those nights on her facebook)
3. Ignore her f*** random dudes at spring break and her f**** random dudes from the clubs back in the 20's, and ignore all the bj's she gave to random dudes at college partys
4. Ignore the fact that she's had about 10 men before him.
5. Will put up with all her mental baggage, drama, and likely weight gain as she becomes comfortable in the relationship and doesn't have to work to stay competitive with other women.
6. Put up with her kids from her bad boy baby daddy and be a daddy to them.
7. With all that said a good man will still pretend this woman is a lady and will try to treat her like one.

That's what a "good man" is to a woman in western society (specially america).

THERE ARE NO GOOD WOMEN LEFT!

I refuse to be any b|tches good man cause I have yet to find a good woman. Like Jay Z rapped in that song "me give my heart to a woman, not for nothing never happen i'll be forever mackin." :D
 
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