"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

men, success, and why most men will never have it

SoldMySoul

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2006
Messages
787
Reaction score
23
Location
Lousyiana
Backbreaker I enjoyed your post, but I am one of those guys that paid the price for stepping out of my comfort zone. By doing so, I almost lost everything and when I got back on my feet after a failed business, I was injured requiring neck surgery.

This injury and a subsequent injury, has really put a damper with my life. I ventured out and took a chance and BAM!!!!! My life has changed forever and I will never get some of my life back because of it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
what did not kill you made you stronger. there is alot i sacrificed and alot i went though that i never have, and never will, post on this forum. i'm sorry for your neck man.


http://www.jonesdairyfarm.com/aboutus/story.aspx

this compaines story is actually in the laws of success book that was written 70 years ago. the company even then was old. they have been around a while.

what the site doesn't tell you is that the founder of the company was 100% paraplegic. could not so much as get out of bed, and founded one of the largest and most successful sausage companies in the united states.

so yes why I am sypmethic for you, you can either cry and feel bad for yourself or you can move on and learn from your mistakes and make something of yourself.
 
Top