"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Men should only invest if women offer value

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For you to invest yourself into any girl, she has to give a you good return. A return other than sex. She has to give you: kids, education, money, family. These things are HARD for her to give because it bounds her to you, forces her settle. Woman generally do not want this as they are always looking for the bigger better deal. They want to offer as little as possible and get as much in return. Do not let them do this.

Ask them to give you kids, ask them to share their money with you, ask them to introduce you to their world, their friends, their family. See where they stand. If they balk, sex toy. :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CuddleJunkie

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Nope, I'm not asking for any of that. Even IF I wanted some of those things, I would wait for her to ask for those things. Rule Of Power Number Something, Make they come to you. This is also one of the manosphere's tenets "men are the gatekeepers to relationships".
PS: I just checked it out, it is number 8. What a lovely book.
 

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The divorce rate in the western world is a good indication that you cannot bind a women even by kids, education, money or family.
The issue is of abundance, there are simply greater options for females than males.
With this current over abundance it would be foolish to invest anything irreplaceable (ie, mental / emotional well being) in a women and would be wise to limit all investment to materialistic, which can be recovered.
 

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She has to give you: kids, education, money, family. These things are HARD for her to give because it bounds her to you, forces her settle.
For a western woman, those things are easy for her to give you because she lives in a fvcking fantasy land. If she decides she doesn't like you anymore, she takes the kids, your money, and destroys the family.

Make high demands of your woman in the beginning before you trust her enough to give her these things.
 
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