"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Men should only invest if women offer value

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For you to invest yourself into any girl, she has to give a you good return. A return other than sex. She has to give you: kids, education, money, family. These things are HARD for her to give because it bounds her to you, forces her settle. Woman generally do not want this as they are always looking for the bigger better deal. They want to offer as little as possible and get as much in return. Do not let them do this.

Ask them to give you kids, ask them to share their money with you, ask them to introduce you to their world, their friends, their family. See where they stand. If they balk, sex toy. :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CuddleJunkie

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Nope, I'm not asking for any of that. Even IF I wanted some of those things, I would wait for her to ask for those things. Rule Of Power Number Something, Make they come to you. This is also one of the manosphere's tenets "men are the gatekeepers to relationships".
PS: I just checked it out, it is number 8. What a lovely book.
 

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The divorce rate in the western world is a good indication that you cannot bind a women even by kids, education, money or family.
The issue is of abundance, there are simply greater options for females than males.
With this current over abundance it would be foolish to invest anything irreplaceable (ie, mental / emotional well being) in a women and would be wise to limit all investment to materialistic, which can be recovered.
 

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She has to give you: kids, education, money, family. These things are HARD for her to give because it bounds her to you, forces her settle.
For a western woman, those things are easy for her to give you because she lives in a fvcking fantasy land. If she decides she doesn't like you anymore, she takes the kids, your money, and destroys the family.

Make high demands of your woman in the beginning before you trust her enough to give her these things.
 
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