"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Men rely on women to lead the way - survey

AgonyUncle

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New York - Some say it's a man's world, but women actually make most purchasing and entertainment decisions, according to a study that could influence advertisers and media companies.

It's long been accepted that women pick out most of the clothes for the family and decide on home furnishings, but market research firm NPD's study of 51 000 US households showed some surprising facets of purchasing decisions broken down by gender.

Men defer to women when it comes to choosing movies, restaurants and television shows, according to the survey, set for release in the next two weeks.

Men will let women choose the restaurant 36 percent of the time
The data indicated that women also decide where to sit in a movie theatre, where to shop for food and which guests come to the family home.

In fact, the only areas where men said they had any clout involved personal electronics purchases, the family car and setting household budgets.

The gender differences in purchasing could have implications for advertising, media and education companies, said NPD chief analyst Marshal Cohen, who spearheaded the research.

"Anyone who's managing a brand, marketing a product or working for an advertising agency needs to be conscientious in the shifts in consumer dynamics," Cohen said.

Women are more than twice as likely to be swayed by magazine advertisements, but newspaper ads influence men more, the study showed.

'Women are more brand conscious'
Also, men will more often change the channel when a commercial comes on, but women are twice as likely to leave the room.

"The guy is so involved in the financial decision that (investment advertisements) need to be in the sports or business pages of a newspaper," Cohen said.

"And if I'm going to advertise (to men), maybe I'm better off doing a commercial during the Super Bowl than an advertisement in men's magazines."

Findings like these could help such companies as The Wall Street Journal publisher Dow Jones, magazine publisher Conde Nast Publications and media conglomerate Viacom, which runs MTV Networks, target their audiences more accurately.

Attitudes towards education also showed gender differences. Women are 26 percent more likely to say they want more schooling, a finding that could be of interest to for-profit educators like Corinthian Colleges.

In picking movies, 20 percent of the study's male respondents said they rely on women to chose, while nine percent of women defer to the guys.

When considering where to eat, men will let women choose the restaurant 36 percent of the time, compared with 17 percent of women letting men decide.

And when watching television, 14 percent of the men in the survey said they'd let women pick the shows, while 9 percent of the women allow men to chose.

Shopping, too, showed clear differences, Cohen found. Women are a third more likely to say that shoes affect their image, and they'll have an average 11 pairs in their closet. The average for men is 4,5 pairs.

"Women are more willing to pay more for a product, they are more brand conscious, but less brand loyal," said Cohen.

"And who are you marketing a bang-bang, shoot-shoot movie to? If the woman is choosing the theatre and where to sit and what to watch on TV, well, you need to think about that."

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Luveno

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Women are more apt to buy based on advertising. That is the whole basis behind the male-bashing on many current ads.

It's not fair, but from a marketing standpoint it's brilliant. However, it is prejudice, so if you have a problem with it, just don't buy those products anymore. Simple as that.
 

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sounds about right... good partnership-she makes the bs choices,while we make the important ones.
 

AgonyUncle

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Not to mention the fact that shes probably spending your money in the process.

Reason why I posted this was to show how women are making decsions FOR men instead of being led by them. I look at my father and grandfather's. This type of **** would never have happened to this extent.
 

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my parents share responsibilities... No one is the sole leader, and they always check with one another before any major purchases.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I always wonder about these "research reports". Do they talk to 100% of the population, or just a bunch of wimpy men from New York?
 
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