"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Men or Mice?

SilverSonnet

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:nervous: I dont know even how to begin this post, so I'm just going to say it. I may only be 14 and some of you might bullsh!t me 'cos of that, but lads, c'mon. Some of you are still closer to AFC than DJ. Read Pook's threads, he says Be a MAN, and you grunt and you be a MAN and you get the girl and all is well...until, you come back.
You come back and you ask questions like
'she said this and that, what does this mean?' 'so angry at being flaked on..'
Lads, what the heck is going on? Your SUPPOSED to be DJ's, men. Strong, powerful, THE GREAT CATCH! Remember, and you come back onto here and saying your angry or obsessed with a certain woman because of something she's done... You KNOW what to do? Next her! YOUR THE GREAT CATCH!!

But, you stick here, stuck and helplessly wondering around. Read the book of pook, I think that it will help most, if not ALL of you learn something.
This is the third time I've read it(I read it every couple of months, as I learn a new thing every time I read it, something I advocate to the rest of you)

Please guys, dont let women be your life. You come home and moan about them, expecting help from the rest of us. You dont know it, but you already have the answers! Ditch her, your the GREAT CATCH, you decide who to go with and fvck. Dont let ANY girl disrespect you.
And, stuff like asking for Date idea, c'mon guys, that's for chumps. Be a MAN, and do what YOU like doing, dont ask other people, 'cos really, your asking us what the woman your dating will like.

Please guys. Your filling the site with useless crap, that you could easily figure out yourself. The information on here, is a crutch to help you start out and learn the gist of the game, not to be your life. Dont come back here every night asking question you can answer yourself. Be a MAN, and you find your true place

Peace and power to you all,
From Ben :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmmm well, you do have a point but the fact is we can always stand to learn something new no matter how much we think we already know... And we all make mistakes and need advice sometimes....

Many scenarios on here are repetitive but I like helping people. and often i learn things by doing so!

If you have a higher intellect and DJ skills than most on here at the tender age of 14 then i say use that skill to help not chastise the weak...
 

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I started on this site at 14 under a different screen name. It helps a lot... stick with this stuff and you'll be the man throughout highschool
 

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DonGorgon said:
Hmmm well, you do have a point but the fact is we can always stand to learn something new no matter how much we think we already know... And we all make mistakes and need advice sometimes....

Many scenarios on here are repetitive but I like helping people. and often i learn things by doing so!

If you have a higher intellect and DJ skills than most on here at the tender age of 14 then i say use that skill to help not chastise the weak...
Look here, I didn't come to argue, or state that I'm better than anybody..I came here to try and help the majority of guys here stop being such ball-less males. Now, if anybody DOES want help, continue talking. I just ask of you, to stop reading into things, your MEN, not women, that's what I thought anyway.
 

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SilverSonnet said:
Look here, I didn't come to argue, or state that I'm better than anybody..I came here to try and help the majority of guys here stop being such ball-less males. Now, if anybody DOES want help, continue talking. I just ask of you, to stop reading into things, your MEN, not women, that's what I thought anyway.
calm down my son.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wow, at 14 and you realize stuff like this... you've got one helluva future
 
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