Phoenixpua-london
Don Juan
Women, women, women, seems to be our life doesn't it? Well time to think about men.
Men, men, men, strange creatures aren't we? What I'm going to write about is the desires of men. Well it is the desires of men as I see it and I have met allot of men, hell believe it or not I am one.
So we all know that women want what they can't have, well so do men. We walk down the road and we want to "****" anything that is even half good looking the "hotter" the better, in fact the hotter the more risks we will take to get her. In fact we will risk all in front of our mates to go across and talk to a chick often to get told to piss off because we are creepy or something. We shrug it off and are like what a *****. Well there is something so wrong about this whole thing. Lets me explain:
“So we all know that women want what they can't have, well so do men.”
Do we really? I mean I was a "player" and went out every night getting random chicks numbers and all that crap – now I have found a girl who gives me everything and more. Is this because of the changes I have made to myself or is it because of the girl I'm with?
Well I believe that it is because of the changes that I have made, well not so much the changes more the options that have been presented to me. I went from 2 women in 21 years to 8 women in 6 months. So since learning how to be a better person and learning what women want and need. I managed to have sex with 6 women in 6 months. All of these were special to me and all remain friends,
But how? We are supposed to pick them up drop them and "****" 10 other women to get over the last one. In fact we are taught to **** until we get a disease and our ****s fall off.
Well here is something to think about, I HAVE NEVER ****ED A WOMEN IN MY LIFE!!! And I never would, I never shag, screw, boink, bended her over and shaft her from behind or any other things I hear guys talk about. I simply make love to the woman. I take care to look after their needs first, even before I learnt all what I know now I always looked after the woman I was with – even if I was having sex and it felt sore for me – I would keep hitting that spot, if she liked it she got it.
I'm still the same. In fact I can confidently say that you ask any of the 9 women that I have been with; if I'm any good in bed they will reply yes. Every time I meet one they ask me when we are going to have sex again. Now I know this sounds like boasting and all that - but all I'm trying to do is show you that it is better to make love than all of these other things.
I'm not saying all I do is lye on top and satisfy all of her needs, I do many things in the bedroom, most stuff guys dream of and will never get. So why do I get it? Well if you satisfy a woman enough that all the other men she has been with before you are inferior, then do you really think she will want to leave you?
The girl I'm with at the moment has been with over double the amount of people I have been with and has never had it as good (again boasting) she actually told me she wont talk to her friends about our sex life encase they try to steal me (I know boasting) all of the women I have been with tell there friends about me, I have had women come up and tell me that there friend says I'm great in bed (more boasting)
Now I know this is boasting and all of that, but it is TRUE – the reason I'm doing this is to show you what is possible just with taking your time.
So there are loads of books out there and they all say the same thing, caress the woman do it how she likes it "she comes first" now I know it isn't what most guys want to hear or do, most of you lot want to go out **** loads of women and run out the door in the morning. That is fine I'm not knocking it I'm sure it is fun. But for those who want to become anything resembling great in bed then I suggest you read this and take heed.
Go out buy the books read them learn practice and become a master in bed.
This is my thoughts on men and sex anyway, hope that helped.
Next part:
"We walk down the road and we want to "****" anything that is even half good looking the "hotter" the better."
Well I have found this not to be true anymore, there is still that human instinct in you that makes you look, but I never feel like "wow I would give up everything to have her" why then has my mind changed?
Well I think it is because I have the choice now. I know that I can have a woman if I put the effort in but what’s the point? What can she give me that my GF doesn't all ready give me? Answer: nothing, simple.
Fact is if you are great in bed your sex will lead the rest of the relationship everything will be better, yes I know there are many aspects of a relationship but the core to any mans "desires" is sex. That is a fact and anyone who denies it, is just lying or hasn't had good sex. If a guy is being satisfied in the bed he will be happy.
Also if his partner is also having great sex then all is good.
So by learning game we can actually learn no be more happy and content with what we have rather than constantly wanting something better. (Again this is my personal views – they maybe crap I don’t know, but I am a sharing guy – hope that helped)
Next part:
"In fact the hotter the more risks we will take to get her. In fact we will risk all in front of our mates to go across and talk to a chick"
We are going to talk about the normal guy here….
So guys see a chick at a bar and feel the urge to go across and talk to her. Well he has to live up to the image that society has set,
Guy: "ok ok one more pint then I will go."
Guy: "right lads this is what I'm going to say, my mate was wondering if you hurt yourself on the way down, when you fell from heaven, you are my angel"
Buddy: "Yeah buddy say that, that ****ing rocks"
Guy: "ok one more pint”
Buddy: "have a few shots as well"
Guy: "cheers mate"
Now if the woman hasn't already left the bar and is at home with her friend Mr rabbit then she soon will be.
The guy stumbles across knocks into everyone and blabs out a load of crap turns around to his mate gives him the thumbs up and smiles, the woman thinks ok I only have to turn my back and he will go away, guy chases harder and harder until she tells him to **** off or gets someone to remove him.
He stumbles back and his mate is like dude she was so into you if it wasn't for that guy you would have had her!!! Let’s kick his head in.
Anyway this we all know right. We are taught to go in and be the nice cool guy who is quirky and fun. And we all know it works for most of us.
But why do women have this power? Why are they constantly the prize?
Well they aren’t and this is something I have learnt – they are no better than me you or anyone else for that matter. I believe I have talked to some of the most beautiful “normal girls” in to country and I believe that they are the easiest women to talk to.
Women like this are so used to be treated like they are the best thing in the world, I have even met some girls that want you to praise the ground they walk on – my reply to these women is this –
“What do you want form me? Do you want me to worship the ground you walk on? Fact is babe when I look at you I see you as a bloody sticky mess coming out of your mother – same as I did 21 years ago, we are equal don’t expect to be treated any different around me.”
To this most women are blown away and level with you – they will spill there life out to you and give you an honest opinion on anything, just think of the power – all the things they are scared to say cause they are beautiful and are not supposed to say these things comes spilling out – this puts you in a whole new zone guys – you are the only guy who they can talk to – the attraction is going through the roof with every word that comes out of her mouth – so why stick to this 90-10% thing we have going on, let her talk you wouldn’t talk over your sister or friend if they were talking why be any different with this person?
I'm trying to encourage guys to just do it just talk to these women, if she is a ***** to you tell her straight – don’t be rude don’t walk away and shrug it off – lets turn this around on them, lets start showing them that there is no pedestals in this world any more – chick flick my ass
Men are a strange bunch aren’t they, I think it is amazing that we will go to such extreme lengths just to get some *****, “Normal guys” – get pissed and start fights, Geeks shoot people in universities to get a woman’s attention and PUAs spend hrs and hrs learning about women and chasing them all the time.
It is a strange world we live in with lots of ****ed up people but I ****ing love it. I love the buzz I get with going into a group of strangers just to say hay, they might kill me but the chances are they wont.
Don’t be scared – get in there and have fun with it – as we say all the time this is a game to be played, don’t sit and read the rules over and over – play the ****ing game guys – take the bad with the good – she tell you to **** off question her about it – tell her straight, and if all else fails well mention her mums fanny and remind here where she came from
Love as always,
Phoenix
(The arrogant Scottish prick)
Damn I have too much spare time.
Men, men, men, strange creatures aren't we? What I'm going to write about is the desires of men. Well it is the desires of men as I see it and I have met allot of men, hell believe it or not I am one.
So we all know that women want what they can't have, well so do men. We walk down the road and we want to "****" anything that is even half good looking the "hotter" the better, in fact the hotter the more risks we will take to get her. In fact we will risk all in front of our mates to go across and talk to a chick often to get told to piss off because we are creepy or something. We shrug it off and are like what a *****. Well there is something so wrong about this whole thing. Lets me explain:
“So we all know that women want what they can't have, well so do men.”
Do we really? I mean I was a "player" and went out every night getting random chicks numbers and all that crap – now I have found a girl who gives me everything and more. Is this because of the changes I have made to myself or is it because of the girl I'm with?
Well I believe that it is because of the changes that I have made, well not so much the changes more the options that have been presented to me. I went from 2 women in 21 years to 8 women in 6 months. So since learning how to be a better person and learning what women want and need. I managed to have sex with 6 women in 6 months. All of these were special to me and all remain friends,
But how? We are supposed to pick them up drop them and "****" 10 other women to get over the last one. In fact we are taught to **** until we get a disease and our ****s fall off.
Well here is something to think about, I HAVE NEVER ****ED A WOMEN IN MY LIFE!!! And I never would, I never shag, screw, boink, bended her over and shaft her from behind or any other things I hear guys talk about. I simply make love to the woman. I take care to look after their needs first, even before I learnt all what I know now I always looked after the woman I was with – even if I was having sex and it felt sore for me – I would keep hitting that spot, if she liked it she got it.
I'm still the same. In fact I can confidently say that you ask any of the 9 women that I have been with; if I'm any good in bed they will reply yes. Every time I meet one they ask me when we are going to have sex again. Now I know this sounds like boasting and all that - but all I'm trying to do is show you that it is better to make love than all of these other things.
I'm not saying all I do is lye on top and satisfy all of her needs, I do many things in the bedroom, most stuff guys dream of and will never get. So why do I get it? Well if you satisfy a woman enough that all the other men she has been with before you are inferior, then do you really think she will want to leave you?
The girl I'm with at the moment has been with over double the amount of people I have been with and has never had it as good (again boasting) she actually told me she wont talk to her friends about our sex life encase they try to steal me (I know boasting) all of the women I have been with tell there friends about me, I have had women come up and tell me that there friend says I'm great in bed (more boasting)
Now I know this is boasting and all of that, but it is TRUE – the reason I'm doing this is to show you what is possible just with taking your time.
So there are loads of books out there and they all say the same thing, caress the woman do it how she likes it "she comes first" now I know it isn't what most guys want to hear or do, most of you lot want to go out **** loads of women and run out the door in the morning. That is fine I'm not knocking it I'm sure it is fun. But for those who want to become anything resembling great in bed then I suggest you read this and take heed.
Go out buy the books read them learn practice and become a master in bed.
This is my thoughts on men and sex anyway, hope that helped.
Next part:
"We walk down the road and we want to "****" anything that is even half good looking the "hotter" the better."
Well I have found this not to be true anymore, there is still that human instinct in you that makes you look, but I never feel like "wow I would give up everything to have her" why then has my mind changed?
Well I think it is because I have the choice now. I know that I can have a woman if I put the effort in but what’s the point? What can she give me that my GF doesn't all ready give me? Answer: nothing, simple.
Fact is if you are great in bed your sex will lead the rest of the relationship everything will be better, yes I know there are many aspects of a relationship but the core to any mans "desires" is sex. That is a fact and anyone who denies it, is just lying or hasn't had good sex. If a guy is being satisfied in the bed he will be happy.
Also if his partner is also having great sex then all is good.
So by learning game we can actually learn no be more happy and content with what we have rather than constantly wanting something better. (Again this is my personal views – they maybe crap I don’t know, but I am a sharing guy – hope that helped)
Next part:
"In fact the hotter the more risks we will take to get her. In fact we will risk all in front of our mates to go across and talk to a chick"
We are going to talk about the normal guy here….
So guys see a chick at a bar and feel the urge to go across and talk to her. Well he has to live up to the image that society has set,
Guy: "ok ok one more pint then I will go."
Guy: "right lads this is what I'm going to say, my mate was wondering if you hurt yourself on the way down, when you fell from heaven, you are my angel"
Buddy: "Yeah buddy say that, that ****ing rocks"
Guy: "ok one more pint”
Buddy: "have a few shots as well"
Guy: "cheers mate"
Now if the woman hasn't already left the bar and is at home with her friend Mr rabbit then she soon will be.
The guy stumbles across knocks into everyone and blabs out a load of crap turns around to his mate gives him the thumbs up and smiles, the woman thinks ok I only have to turn my back and he will go away, guy chases harder and harder until she tells him to **** off or gets someone to remove him.
He stumbles back and his mate is like dude she was so into you if it wasn't for that guy you would have had her!!! Let’s kick his head in.
Anyway this we all know right. We are taught to go in and be the nice cool guy who is quirky and fun. And we all know it works for most of us.
But why do women have this power? Why are they constantly the prize?
Well they aren’t and this is something I have learnt – they are no better than me you or anyone else for that matter. I believe I have talked to some of the most beautiful “normal girls” in to country and I believe that they are the easiest women to talk to.
Women like this are so used to be treated like they are the best thing in the world, I have even met some girls that want you to praise the ground they walk on – my reply to these women is this –
“What do you want form me? Do you want me to worship the ground you walk on? Fact is babe when I look at you I see you as a bloody sticky mess coming out of your mother – same as I did 21 years ago, we are equal don’t expect to be treated any different around me.”
To this most women are blown away and level with you – they will spill there life out to you and give you an honest opinion on anything, just think of the power – all the things they are scared to say cause they are beautiful and are not supposed to say these things comes spilling out – this puts you in a whole new zone guys – you are the only guy who they can talk to – the attraction is going through the roof with every word that comes out of her mouth – so why stick to this 90-10% thing we have going on, let her talk you wouldn’t talk over your sister or friend if they were talking why be any different with this person?
I'm trying to encourage guys to just do it just talk to these women, if she is a ***** to you tell her straight – don’t be rude don’t walk away and shrug it off – lets turn this around on them, lets start showing them that there is no pedestals in this world any more – chick flick my ass
Men are a strange bunch aren’t they, I think it is amazing that we will go to such extreme lengths just to get some *****, “Normal guys” – get pissed and start fights, Geeks shoot people in universities to get a woman’s attention and PUAs spend hrs and hrs learning about women and chasing them all the time.
It is a strange world we live in with lots of ****ed up people but I ****ing love it. I love the buzz I get with going into a group of strangers just to say hay, they might kill me but the chances are they wont.
Don’t be scared – get in there and have fun with it – as we say all the time this is a game to be played, don’t sit and read the rules over and over – play the ****ing game guys – take the bad with the good – she tell you to **** off question her about it – tell her straight, and if all else fails well mention her mums fanny and remind here where she came from
Love as always,
Phoenix
(The arrogant Scottish prick)
Damn I have too much spare time.
