You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Women are wasteful creatures. If their car breaks down, they need to buy a new one. They don't think about the fact that men are the ones who fix their cars or de-clog their clogged sinks. They don't need men because they can buy what they need, which is generally the end of their train of thought. They don't think about where their replacement sink or car comes from, because it doesn't matter just as long as they get it.Create Reality said:There's not a lot of women working dirty jobs, compared to men.
I know a couple nurses, and I certainly wouldnt want to do some of the gross dirty things they have to do. Women have their share of gross jobs. That said, Id say most dirty jobs are male gigs because of the strength needed to work those jobs efficiently...something a woman just wont compare with a man.Create Reality said:There's not a lot of women working dirty jobs, compared to men.
*shrug*, and the things women contribute to our world would regress without them. Both men and women have their purpose in society and bring positives to it. Dont fall for the troll thread from the noobie OP (esp considering the thread creation history)Desdinova said:Without men, technology would regress rather than progress.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Oh stfu you homo.Jaylan said:I know a couple nurses, and I certainly wouldnt want to do some of the gross dirty things they have to do. Women have their share of gross jobs. That said, Id say most dirty jobs are male gigs because of the strength needed to work those jobs efficiently...something a woman just wont compare with a man.
*shrug*, and the things women contribute to our world would regress without them. Both men and women have their purpose in society and bring positives to it. Dont fall for the troll thread from the noobie OP (esp considering the thread creation history)