She came here to flame and troll. She wasn't a serious new use. Looks like the mods already put her flaming out.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Men: If lady says she wants a dildo instead of your penis...
- Thread starter Amy359
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Duke
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Well then don't get pissed after I get off, pull out immediately, and roll over and fall asleep. Its all natural anyways. I don't need to stay awake to make you happy right? Why should I sacrifice my happiness and sleep to make some woman happy?
logicallefty
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Ill give a woman her pleasure however she asks for it. Only rule is nothing goes inside me and I dont do food. Thats it. Otherwise she can have it however she asks. Then when she is done ill take mine. Amy maybe you have never had a man attempt to please you because you haven't been worth it to any man? otherwise you wouldn't be calling men selfish..
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If her profile was truthful, she was 22 and the absolute epitome of what you guys complain about. young, immature, doesn't feel comfortable having specific standards, and sticking to them, buys into the male scarcity belief (by believing that she has to do something or the man wont be happy and stick around) and cant communicate worth a sh1t and feels it is okay to be disrespectful (all be it in a keyboard warrior type of manner) she's an idiot
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.