She came here to flame and troll. She wasn't a serious new use. Looks like the mods already put her flaming out.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Men: If lady says she wants a dildo instead of your penis...
- Thread starter Amy359
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Duke
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Well then don't get pissed after I get off, pull out immediately, and roll over and fall asleep. Its all natural anyways. I don't need to stay awake to make you happy right? Why should I sacrifice my happiness and sleep to make some woman happy?
logicallefty
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Ill give a woman her pleasure however she asks for it. Only rule is nothing goes inside me and I dont do food. Thats it. Otherwise she can have it however she asks. Then when she is done ill take mine. Amy maybe you have never had a man attempt to please you because you haven't been worth it to any man? otherwise you wouldn't be calling men selfish..
sazc
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If her profile was truthful, she was 22 and the absolute epitome of what you guys complain about. young, immature, doesn't feel comfortable having specific standards, and sticking to them, buys into the male scarcity belief (by believing that she has to do something or the man wont be happy and stick around) and cant communicate worth a sh1t and feels it is okay to be disrespectful (all be it in a keyboard warrior type of manner) she's an idiot
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.