Men have it easier than women

[DJohnson]

You know, I used to find it strange that women went through so much effort to find a man( I am a man by the way ). As I matured and grew in my own powers of seduction, it has become much more clear.

Although the average women can get laid by a man that she may find attractive more often than the reverse is true, it is certainly easier for a man with seduction talents to get what he desires more often than the reverse is true.

In society today women are still under so many barriers and constrictions. In larger cities this is no longer as true, but still far more true in most parts of the world.

It seems women aren't as freely able to simply let go of any inhibitions and fears and do whatever is needed to land the guy they REALLY want. If that change means acting a certain way in the short term, or making long term changes, they are under pressure not to do so.

Therefore you have women who complain about "not being able to find a man". But there are only not able to under the specific confines and framework imposed upon them by society.

I used to think women had it easy. Nowadays, I know better.

 

[DJDamage]

I think its true but it also depends on the type of women. I still think a very attractive woman has it easier then a man with seduction talent. A very attractive woman is like a celebrity, all she has to do is walk around and there will be free offers thrown her way left and right (she is like a magnet, gets what she wants with no effort what so ever).

On the other hand a man with seduction talent has to work for it and always needs to give a bit more effort. But yes overall a man with great seduction skill is better off.

 

[DJ_in_making]

That's the first time I heard that....

Guys have it easier? I do not understand why u think that at all I cannot think of one single reason..... but I'm open minded to anyone older than me and experienced the game more.

 

[penkitten]

i agree
it may be easy for a gal to get alot of guys
those guys may not be what she is looking for
what she is looking for is harder to find
and then you really have to work hard to get yourself out there

 

[sux2bu]

Nonsense. Looks, confidence and social skills dictate your fate with the opposite gender in regards to appropriating a mate.

The playing field has always been level.

 

[Sasha]

chicks too have the same fear of rejection as guys

 

[DJ_in_making]

I'm still waiting on some examples....
What is it that makes it harder for women?

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Originally posted by Sasha
chicks too have the same fear of rejection as guys

As long as the girl is even mildly attractive, they're not going to get rejected immediately out of hand 9 times out of 10.

I completely disagree that guys have it easier.

 

[JaguarMike]

I see your point DJohnson, this is true. But because women have it tough because of what you said, we also suffer.

Men and women have to have a symbiosis, and when one dynamic is all fukcedup it messes with the other dynamics.

Ever travel and see how different other countries are to dating, sex, and life? I was in Canada and this guy pickedup this girl using ****y funny tactics like a PRO. I mean I couldn't make the stuff up that he said, pure genius (wish I could remember it). I've never seen someone be that smooth. I've got some friends that have their world revolving around women, are extremely successful with it, and i've never seen them do anything like this guy did.

American relationships are all messedup because our roles are changing constantly, and its really confusing to a lot of people. I wish it was like the 1950's, I hate our time. It will change, though.

 

[comote]

The point I realized I was getting close to where I wanted to be was when I realized the truth that we do have it easier than women.

We have the control in the game,
1) Even the hottest woman can only choose among the men that approach her.

2) A bit of persistence on our part makes us seem more interested. A bit of persistence on a woman's part just makes her seem more desperate.

3) When we are sexually aggressive, well we're just men. When women are sexually aggressive they are just ho's.

Really these all boil down to one main concept though.

As men, less importance is attached to any move we make. Even the biggest afc move can be confused for a something a player would do by many girls.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by comote
The point I realized I was getting close to where I wanted to be was when I realized the truth that we do have it easier than women.

We have the control in the game,
1) Even the hottest woman can only choose among the men that approach her.

She can ONLY choose? Isn't that control enough? LOL If she can have her pick from any man that approaches her SHE is in control.

 

[Glycerine2]

Men have it easier than women

Funniest thing I've ever heard.

An attractive looking woman will get hit on far more than an equally attractive man. All a woman has to do is say "f*ck me", and guys will line up to do so. You think that'd work for a guy? I didn't think so. Woman also have much higher standards than men personality wise and are very picky about what they think a man should wear. And that's accepted. If an outspoken guy talked about high standards about woman, he'd look like an @$$hole. But for some reason woman are allowed to have those standards.

If you really think men have it easier in the dating world, you must be Brad Pitt.

 

[comote]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
She can ONLY choose? Isn't that control enough? LOL If she can have her pick from any man that approaches her SHE is in control.

Imagine you go to a club and the only women that approach you are the ugliest nastiest girls in the whole place.

Add to that the inability to approach the women you find attractive and you get a sense of why we have it easier.

Remember people want what they feel they can't have. Even the hottest woman will always want one of the guys that never approached her or made her work for it.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by comote
Imagine you go to a club and the only women that approach you are the ugliest nastiest girls in the whole place.

Add to that the inability to approach the women you find attractive and you get a sense of why we have it easier.

Remember people want what they feel they can't have. Even the hottest woman will always want one of the guys that never approached her or made her work for it.

Girls can approach guys too; pretty much any guy she wants and will more than likely get him.

 

[comote]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Girls can approach guys too; pretty much any guy she wants and will more than likely get him.

Take how scared you are of rejection, now multiply it by the largest number you can write down and that is how scared most women are of rejection.

A woman that is interested in you feels rejected if you don't approach her or make a move on her. Most are not going to put there egos on the line.

Of course there are always exceptions but these are just generalities

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by comote
Take how scared you are of rejection, now multiply it by the largest number you can write down and that is how scared most women are of rejection.

A woman that is interested in you feels rejected if you don't approach her or make a move on her. Most are not going to put there egos on the line.

Of course there are always exceptions but these are just generalities

how do u know they have a bigger fear of rejection?

 

[comote]

Have you ever seen a woman be interested in someone?

Watch how they act. When your skills improve, and they will, you will see and experience what its like to see a hot woman kiss your a$$ hoping to get your attention.

Another point, women have to have a short game, if you are not physically attracted to a woman no amount of game in the world will get you to fvck her. OTOH personality and game can get us much farther.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by DJDamage
I think its true but it also depends on the type of women. I still think a very attractive woman has it easier then a man with seduction talent. A very attractive woman is like a celebrity, all she has to do is walk around and there will be free offers thrown her way left and right (she is like a magnet, gets what she wants with no effort what so ever).

On the other hand a man with seduction talent has to work for it and always needs to give a bit more effort. But yes overall a man with great seduction skill is better off.

Trust me...there are plenty of pitfalls to being an attractive woman, too. Sure, you get plenty of offers but you also know that you are only getting them because of how you look. Those offers come for the wrong reasons...not because you have a great personality and those men genuinely like you as a human being. You know that the vast majority of the men that pursue you are only doing so because they view you as an arm piece or a piece of meat. Personally, I detest that. I'd rather be single than be someone's ornament.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Glycerine2
Funniest thing I've ever heard.

An attractive looking woman will get hit on far more than an equally attractive man. All a woman has to do is say "f*ck me", and guys will line up to do so. You think that'd work for a guy? I didn't think so. Woman also have much higher standards than men personality wise and are very picky about what they think a man should wear. And that's accepted. If an outspoken guy talked about high standards about woman, he'd look like an @$$hole. But for some reason woman are allowed to have those standards.

If you really think men have it easier in the dating world, you must be Brad Pitt.

You're assuming that women are looking for the same thing men are. If women wanted what men want, then yes, they would have it easier. However, women don't want to have as many one night stands as she possibly can or have as many sex partners as she can. Women want to find one ideal man to stay with. It can be difficult to find that when those you have to choose from want something different.

The playing field is relatively even when you consider everyone's goals in the game.

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Originally posted by comote

A woman that is interested in you feels rejected if you don't approach her or make a move on her. Most are not going to put there egos on the line.

Of course there are always exceptions but these are just generalities

That's one of the more "amusing" generalities I've ever heard.

If that's true, then women would be much more assertive in showing whether or not they WANTED to be approached than just giving some eye contact and expecting a guy to figure out the rest. There are simply too many guys out there that don't understand how to play that particular brand of cards...women would walk around feeling miserable constantly.