"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Men generally come here to grow, women come there to be manipulative gold-diggers

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I find it odd that women post in this site to give men advice, I dont hate it or anything like that, i just find a a little bit strange there's a motive behind it, women that post here shouldnt expect young dudes who have been hurt 5 times to listen to thier advices.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by skeeloo
I find it odd that women post in this site to give men advice, I dont hate it or anything like that, i just find a a little bit strange there's a motive behind it, women that post here shouldnt expect young dudes who have been hurt 5 times to listen to thier advices.
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That is a negative outlook to have, and I understand since I think we all have been there. What I recently had to realize is this=there is no offical war going on between Mars and Venus. They both have citizens trying to start cival unrest but officially there is no war.

In general women aren't out to hurt men (just some since they have been hurt themselves), and in general women aren't out to be gold digger (which really is an oxymoron since men's natural job is too be providers as well as protectors).

I had to learn to let bygones be bygones, and not blame the entire female race because of a couple of bad ones.

Remember just because you were hurt by 5 people that doesnt mean the other 6,999,999,995 people of the planet earth are out to get you.
 
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i never said i hated any women who posted here i dont even know who and who is a chick on this place.
i still dont think women who post here wana help out any dude on this site somethings up.
 
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rgeere and MetalFortress: She PM me her MSN address, so backoff.
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She doesn't use MSN, moron.
 
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