"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuan_DeRosco

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http://www.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip_600/688_fashion-and-the-heterosexual-male.html

Here is the article, where a woman basically says she disagrees with a lot of the male fashions currently doing the rounds. Says she doesn't like the skinny jeans look etc. In the main she seems a ray of common sense in this fast becoming gay society.

However, read the responses at the end of the article. A tirade of women slating her opinion and that men have been fashion 'repressed' for too long. Too amusing.

I only bring this up as I'm noticing alot of these skinny jeans, effeminate, scarf, pullover, cardigan wearing guys around the uni I work at.

Saddens me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FairShake

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What is wrong with a cardigan? That style is classic.

As for skinny jeans I think it is well known just about every guy looks better in skinny jeans and fitted clothing than the baggy monstrosities that I and every other wannabe AND real O.G. wore back in the 90s or the "dad jeans" that I usually rock. That iss us wearing jeans for us because they were comfortable and looked ridiculous which is what guys do if left up to their own devices. Skinny jeans are us wearing clothes for them. And really, what is fashion other than clothes to get you laid?
 
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