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Men are slaves to their sex drives. This allows all of this gynocracy and feminism to occur in the first place. Women know that the faintest hint of sex is enough to make the average man grovel. They are using our sex drives against us. For every finger we point at women we should point 4 more at ourselves.

Look at the pathetic losers on Twitch and OnlyFans. I cringe at the times in my past when I would bend over backwards to smash a girl ( that I already smashed mind you) . A mans toughest battle is his libido. A woman toughest battle is her emotional stability and vanity. They work hand in hand. They are symbiotic and often parasitical.
 

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I respectfully must say "speak for yourself" I had many years of women fawning and annoying me. I learned early
That women are the work of the Devil, and that has served me well. I've made many mistakes, but for the most part...
 

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I respectfully must say "speak for yourself" I had many years of women fawning and annoying me. I learned early
That women are the work of the Devil, and that has served me well. I've made many mistakes, but for the most part...
lol okay well you learned in your early teens then. For most of us its a constant battle. Did you just eliminate your sex drive?
 

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I respectfully must say "speak for yourself" I had many years of women fawning and annoying me. I learned early
That women are the work of the Devil, and that has served me well. I've made many mistakes, but for the most part...
And if this were 100% true then you would not be on this website. I am convinced that this reality is a simulation of some sort. One of the main challenges in this simulation is controlling your avatars sex drive. The main antagonist is the female. She will tempt you will her sexual wiles. This will lead to destruction if not carefully played. This why the first book of the Bible is warning men of this game.

We are getting better at playing this game but we are all " one bj away from the plantation".
 

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Men are slaves to their sex drives. This allows all of this gynocracy and feminism to occur in the first place. Women know that the faintest hint of sex is enough to make the average man grovel. They are using our sex drives against us. For every finger we point at women we should point 4 more at ourselves.

Look at the pathetic losers on Twitch and OnlyFans. I cringe at the times in my past when I would bend over backwards to smash a girl ( that I already smashed mind you) . A mans toughest battle is his libido. A woman toughest battle is her emotional stability and vanity. They work hand in hand. They are symbiotic and often parasitical.
A man with TRUE standards LAUGHS in the face of women who do this or use list to lure a man. A man of true character and status looks beyond looks and to the persons personality and how they carry themselves. Obviously looks matter but a man cares more about how she takes CARE of herself more than her figure though a woman who takes care of herself usually has a nice figure.
 

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When I was 12 Trudy lived ((>>Directly<<)) across the street. My mistakes and experience did start early.
 

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Men are slaves to their sex drives. This allows all of this gynocracy and feminism to occur in the first place. Women know that the faintest hint of sex is enough to make the average man grovel. They are using our sex drives against us. For every finger we point at women we should point 4 more at ourselves.

Look at the pathetic losers on Twitch and OnlyFans. I cringe at the times in my past when I would bend over backwards to smash a girl ( that I already smashed mind you) . A mans toughest battle is his libido. A woman toughest battle is her emotional stability and vanity. They work hand in hand. They are symbiotic and often parasitical.
A man's toughest battle is definitely not his libido. His chosen craft, his true passion, has him go through much more complex battles by comparison, to the point that anything a woman does is just fun play and can hardly be taken seriously.

If you're offended by a little tease and vilify women for it then you are waaay too sensitive to lead or have a woman. Challenge yourself in other aspects of your life, the MAIN aspects, and let the bliss from them overflow into your interactions with women.

Come from abundance.
 

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Men are slaves to their sex drives. This allows all of this gynocracy and feminism to occur in the first place. Women know that the faintest hint of sex is enough to make the average man grovel. They are using our sex drives against us. For every finger we point at women we should point 4 more at ourselves.

Look at the pathetic losers on Twitch and OnlyFans. I cringe at the times in my past when I would bend over backwards to smash a girl ( that I already smashed mind you) . A mans toughest battle is his libido. A woman toughest battle is her emotional stability and vanity. They work hand in hand. They are symbiotic and often parasitical.
I like Kevin Samuels but he was on a podcast BRAGGING about paying her bills. It's pretty pathetic. More when awarev9f hypergamy and female nature. Overall I like him and the content but definitely purple pill.

There are old rsd Tyler video about waking up one day and becoming in control of the D finally. As age happens or T drops and a man unplug, it no longer controls his life anymore. I think it is beneficial to go monk mode. I am conflicted with the existential crisis of time. We only have so much time and then it's over (or not for our religious pals). In any event, we have this finite life. I can count on one hand the amount I cared to see again after busting a nut.

WatchING Conor get thumped last weekend, it sort of put it all into perspective the importance of the pursuit of the W. You only get so much time and energy. You will get old. You will hit the old dusty trail. I am putting in work. The chase is whatever. I am approach, pull or next.

YouTube the short clip of Troy Francis and James Tusk. There is a existential crisis that hits every man. Yaght Conor got ktfo. Time gets us all. It's why I don't drink or do blow.


A lot of man are lost. Most are fatherless. If they have a father, he's a atm and furniture. There is a lot of rubbish about anti man,fatherless homes, man hating, and toxic masculinity. Simp is toxic. The culture needs more men. The problem is that a lot of men are checked out.

The future is cat farm karens. Spinster cat ladies. Good riddance. Watching the world burn. let it burn. Feminism, single mom's, abortions,and the dumpster fire smp. It is what it is. These men were raised by that. And women have themselves to blame for no father's in the home.
 

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I like Kevin Samuels but he was on a podcast BRAGGING about paying her bills. It's pretty pathetic. More when awarev9f hypergamy and female nature. Overall I like him and the content but definitely purple pill.

There are old rsd Tyler video about waking up one day and becoming in control of the D finally. As age happens or T drops and a man unplug, it no longer controls his life anymore. I think it is beneficial to go monk mode. I am conflicted with the existential crisis of time. We only have so much time and then it's over (or not for our religious pals). In any event, we have this finite life. I can count on one hand the amount I cared to see again after busting a nut.

WatchING Conor get thumped last weekend, it sort of put it all into perspective the importance of the pursuit of the W. You only get so much time and energy. You will get old. You will hit the old dusty trail. I am putting in work. The chase is whatever. I am approach, pull or next.

YouTube the short clip of Troy Francis and James Tusk. There is a existential crisis that hits every man. Yaght Conor got ktfo. Time gets us all. It's why I don't drink or do blow.


A lot of man are lost. Most are fatherless. If they have a father, he's a atm and furniture. There is a lot of rubbish about anti man,fatherless homes, man hating, and toxic masculinity. Simp is toxic. The culture needs more men. The problem is that a lot of men are checked out.

The future is cat farm karens. Spinster cat ladies. Good riddance. Watching the world burn. let it burn. Feminism, single mom's, abortions,and the dumpster fire smp. It is what it is. These men were raised by that. And women have themselves to blame for no father's in the home.
Lol I agree. As I get older its easier to control my sex drive. So i am focusing on other stuff.

As for Conor getting banged on . I loved it. Conor was an overrated fighter with Charisma and a left hand. Conor is not getting old he should be in his prime at 31. Dustin was also the same age. But Dustin was humble and had a great character. Dustin kept improving. Conor was a slave to his sex drive and it ruined him. He had multiple sexual assault allegations and baby mama allegations etc.
 

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A man's toughest battle is definitely not his libido. His chosen craft, his true passion, has him go through much more complex battles by comparison, to the point that anything a woman does is just fun play and can hardly be taken seriously.

If you're offended by a little tease and vilify women for it then you are waaay too sensitive to lead or have a woman. Challenge yourself in other aspects of your life, the MAIN aspects, and let the bliss from them overflow into your interactions with women.

Come from abundance.
Yes i agree. But in the modern era men dont realize that women are not a big deal. This is because we have no great wars or challenges. If you live a life absent of masculine challenges you WILL pedestalize sex and women.

Now that I actually have hobbies sex takes a back seat. It takes a long time to get to that point though. I spent my whole 20s like the guys in this video. I was a bit more savage with it but still.
 

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Well, you can freeze frame videos to make anybody look like anything you want to see in them.

The first video she seems like she's pranking him, though I didn't get the joke. I'm blowing you, no I'm not? Second video, it's obviously scripted as a joke, no point in breaking that down. Third video, not sure how that comes about (taking a black dude around to be kissed?) but yeah, the girl should say "I have a boyfriend." Nevertheless I think the girl could also be doing it because she's feeling white guilt and on camera. The boyfriend is put on the spot, but if he acted angry it would be worse. Ice cold response would be "bro, you can have her" or "she's not my girlfriend."

Agree that complete indifference and self-acceptance would mitigate their neediness.
 

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Spin plates. If you have 3-5 attractive girls sleeping with you and vying for your attention, this video will look a lot less exciting. Same for porn.

Then if all your plates drop, or you move countries, this video looks interesting again. Then you get a few plates going again and the video will again be less interesting.

Just my experience.
 

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Well, you can freeze frame videos to make anybody look like anything you want to see in them.

The first video she seems like she's pranking him, though I didn't get the joke. I'm blowing you, no I'm not? Second video, it's obviously scripted as a joke, no point in breaking that down. Third video, not sure how that comes about (taking a black dude around to be kissed?) but yeah, the girl should say "I have a boyfriend." Nevertheless I think the girl could also be doing it because she's feeling white guilt and on camera. The boyfriend is put on the spot, but if he acted angry it would be worse. Ice cold response would be "bro, you can have her" or "she's not my girlfriend."

Agree that complete indifference and self-acceptance would mitigate their neediness.
Yeh i agree. The 3rd video was prob white guilt. It was super cringe. The point still stands that the only power they have over men is the power we give them. All our talk about feminism is moot. We have met the enemy and it is us. The issue is us.
 

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I've said it 1000 times on this site:

Women should be a small side dish, but certainly not the main course, on your huge plate of food in life.

I'm certainly not a "spin 4 plates guy." Never was. Nothing wrong with the guys that do, I've just learned over time the juice is not worth the squeeze. I date a little, I f*ck a little, but am mainly focused on my goals.

Yes, some guys come from a place of thinking too much with their d*ck. But most come from a place of FEAR; of being alone, single, unmarried, whatever. That's a sh*tty and pathetic way to go through life: constantly in fear and a slave to p*ssy and social norms.

If anyone has read The Alchemist, we should all be focused on our Personal Legend. Not chasing some low quality (and time-sucking) piece of ass.

Dash
 

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Spin plates. If you have 3-5 attractive girls sleeping with you and vying for your attention, this video will look a lot less exciting. Same for porn.

Then if all your plates drop, or you move countries, this video looks interesting again. Then you get a few plates going again and the video will again be less interesting.

Just my experience.
Oh yeh.
I've said it 1000 times on this site:

Women should be a small side dish, but certainly not the main course, on your huge plate of food in life.

I'm certainly not a "spin 4 plates guy." Never was. Nothing wrong with the guys that do, I've just learned over time the juice is not worth the squeeze. I date a little, I f*ck a little, but am mainly focused on my goals.

Yes, some guys come from a place of thinking too much with their d*ck. But most come from a place of FEAR; of being alone, single, unmarried, whatever. That's a sh*tty and pathetic way to go through life: constantly in fear and a slave to p*ssy and social norms.

If anyone has read The Alchemist, we should all be forced on our Personal Legend. Not chasing some low quality piece of ass.

Dash
hey Dash out of curiosity do you have kids? Becuz ur a guy in great shape and has hobbies? Were kids a barrier to this or a supplement to this?
 

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Pandora you are absolutely right! 95 percent of men have completely lost their way. The problem is they have no one to show them the right way. Men need to unite and hold each other accountable... get off social media... get off online dating... let’s these platforms die! There is zero incentive for females to develop and become quality humans! They simply dress skimpy... post a picture... get validation... set up a one night stand if they are horny, rinse, repeat. It’s leading to the downfall of western civilization... i see 40-45 year old moms of multiple kids out boozing in bars with their mom friends all weekend.... then posting pictures of them baking apple pies and simps posting “ so hot” “ beautiful” “ amazing mom”. Meanwhile in reality she’s riding the penis carousel all weekend.. while her cuck husband watches the kids he hopes are his... she’s waking up hungover and probably buying that pie pre made at Costco.... if your friends are part of the problem they need to be corrected. Slowly over several generations maybe we can right this ship... the majority of men will again be respected... and females will actually become quality humans again!!
 

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Yes i agree. But in the modern era men dont realize that women are not a big deal. This is because we have no great wars or challenges. If you live a life absent of masculine challenges you WILL pedestalize sex and women.

Now that I actually have hobbies sex takes a back seat. It takes a long time to get to that point though. I spent my whole 20s like the guys in this video. I was a bit more savage with it but still.
There's a continuum of men, from the ones that see women as NBD, to the ones that orbit them. I agree that it seems there's more orbiters and cucks, but to me this is perfectly natural. Even in times of war you would have cowards and traitors.

It's a bell curve, the average man is just that, average. All we can do is ascend and inspire others to elevate themselves, challenge themselves, and focus on each other's strengths.

I'm a huge fan of rigorous exercise because for me that helps put everything in perspective. The pain of a woman's rejection doesn't even register compared to the pain of a five mile sprint or a hard gym session. That's when SS seems boring, because it's mostly men getting emotional or trying to reverse engineer attraction.

If you come from a place of self assurance and abundance it's extremely simple. You facilitate joyous women that behave like teammates into your life and discard the rest. The moments of being alone are cherished and feel liberating, so LTRs aren't even on your mind.

If it feels bad to be alone then that man will ruin any relationship he gets into with his codependency.

Anyway it's much better to focus on the positives and inspire with action than vilify or shame with words. Easier said than done.
 

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Lol I agree. As I get older its easier to control my sex drive. So i am focusing on other stuff.

As for Conor getting banged on . I loved it. Conor was an overrated fighter with Charisma and a left hand. Conor is not getting old he should be in his prime at 31. Dustin was also the same age. But Dustin was humble and had a great character. Dustin kept improving. Conor was a slave to his sex drive and it ruined him. He had multiple sexual assault allegations and baby mama allegations etc.
Typically, I would agree. Prime between 18-32. Dustin is straight out of fight club. tyler durdan reincarnate. Conor fought came in on a Yaght. In a phantom. He looked stiff. He had no idea how to check the kick which has me questions on the team. Let's not forget the benders he went on. I've never touched cocaine. I don't drink at all through pandemic. You need SINGLE MINDED FOCUS. Khabib smashed Connor for 4rds and couldn't hurt him. The hunger is gone. To me it's a warning like Rock 3 eye of the Tiger. there was balloon animals and kids in the stands at weigh ins.

^^^^ is a warning to men to stay on the grind.
 
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