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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Men are guilty until...DEAD
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Amoca,
How much further can this lop sided society persecute us for being Men...We need to speak out more,confront these Feminazis..Several threads here right now illustrating the sad situation Men are in!
How much further can this lop sided society persecute us for being Men...We need to speak out more,confront these Feminazis..Several threads here right now illustrating the sad situation Men are in!
SgtSplacker
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I avoid cops the same way I avoid someone that looks like a criminal. To me they are the same thing. Both are regular folk out in the street looking for trouble.
Neither is here to help you.
Both have a chip on their shoulder AT ALL TIMES.
Any involvement with either will cost you money.
Both think they can use force on you and can kill you if they want.
Both are out on the street to generate revenue for themselves or their associates.
They are the same thing. The only difference is one works under the guise of good intention the other does not.
Neither is here to help you.
Both have a chip on their shoulder AT ALL TIMES.
Any involvement with either will cost you money.
Both think they can use force on you and can kill you if they want.
Both are out on the street to generate revenue for themselves or their associates.
They are the same thing. The only difference is one works under the guise of good intention the other does not.
Colossus
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SgtSplacker said:
Sad but I kind of agree with you.
I know a couple of city cops at my gym. They both said they have never written a traffic ticket in their career, otherwise they would be hypocrites. But they are not the norm. Cops don't HAVE to write tickets, that whole "quota" thing is a myth. They do it because they want to nail somebody, and they can.
They tell me about guys on the police force who blatantly violate people's rights, either out of ignorance (yes, ignorance), or just power tripping. Unnecessary violence, arrests, tickets, etc.
Yeah I know there are decent guys out there doing a fair job, but cops are your enemy until proven otherwise. They have the power to ruin your life.
SecondHalf
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Agree with Sgt.
Too many cops are scum. This vid didn't make me think about women at all. It's the stupid, ignorant meatball cop.
How are they different than a feminist?
They have virtually no deterrent to prevent them from acting without a shred of human decency. They feel entitled to do whatever they want and are protected when they f*** up!
They should charge each one of those meatballs with manslaughter. That was a mob killing! A bunch of tiny men, beating up on a single fellow.
SH
Too many cops are scum. This vid didn't make me think about women at all. It's the stupid, ignorant meatball cop.
How are they different than a feminist?
They have virtually no deterrent to prevent them from acting without a shred of human decency. They feel entitled to do whatever they want and are protected when they f*** up!
They should charge each one of those meatballs with manslaughter. That was a mob killing! A bunch of tiny men, beating up on a single fellow.
SH
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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It's an occupation that everyone knows puts you in a position of supreme power against other people. So it is going to attract bullies, cowards and shysters in droves.
I have never heard someone say they want to be a cop to do good deeds and give back to the community. They all want to abuse something or someone or use cool toys or empower themselves somehow. I think cops should be limited to military or ex-military personnel. Because at least those people started off wanting to do something good and virtuous. But to hire regular folk off the streets to be cops is a mistake in my eyes.
This is exactly why that guy died, you get a buncha combat trained wimps hiding behind their authority, the excuse of resisting arrest, and the mob mentality and they will do anything to anyone because they can somehow justify it to their peers. They don't care about that guys family or his daughter growing up without a father. They didn't get the respect they wanted and took it to that guy because they know they can and get away with it.
If they were combat hardened veterans they would have given the guy a chance. Knowing that he didn't do anything to risk losing his life over.
I have never heard someone say they want to be a cop to do good deeds and give back to the community. They all want to abuse something or someone or use cool toys or empower themselves somehow. I think cops should be limited to military or ex-military personnel. Because at least those people started off wanting to do something good and virtuous. But to hire regular folk off the streets to be cops is a mistake in my eyes.
This is exactly why that guy died, you get a buncha combat trained wimps hiding behind their authority, the excuse of resisting arrest, and the mob mentality and they will do anything to anyone because they can somehow justify it to their peers. They don't care about that guys family or his daughter growing up without a father. They didn't get the respect they wanted and took it to that guy because they know they can and get away with it.
If they were combat hardened veterans they would have given the guy a chance. Knowing that he didn't do anything to risk losing his life over.
Sad, but true. I find it impossible to fathom what would posess a human being to voluntarily want to be a professional a$$hole. Most of us are content doing it for free.
"Wait till you need a cop to help you" they always say. When I personally witness one actually do something other than act (and drive) like a complete a$$hole, I'll amend that statement. Hasn't happened once in 44 years.
Every one of them in that video deserves to spend the rest of their lives in jail.
"Wait till you need a cop to help you" they always say. When I personally witness one actually do something other than act (and drive) like a complete a$$hole, I'll amend that statement. Hasn't happened once in 44 years.
Every one of them in that video deserves to spend the rest of their lives in jail.
Absolutely.amoka said:
If this were a race rather than gender issue it would be called profiling.
From what I gathered on the news a few months back, because of PC and liability prevention, a lot of places are adopting policies where they don't ask or report to officers the race of suspects when people call. Imagine if these cops responded to a call that a guy was breaking into a car in that parking lot and did the same thing to the first non white guy they saw?
Hell, wasn't this guy Hispanic? I wouldn't rule out profiling here, either.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
