"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Men are bigger liars than women (apparently)

starplayer

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A poll says that women are more honest and feel more guilty about lying compared to men (unless of course the women who answered the poll were lying).

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8689010.stm

Seems like another attempt to reinforce the idea that women are more virtuous and have higher morals than men.

I should think that in reality men and women lie in equal amounts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tazman

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This type of poll is extremely flawed.

Observing what men and women do in real life situations, can you honestly believe the results of this poll?
 

starplayer

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Tazman said:
Observing what men and women do in real life situations, can you honestly believe the results of this poll?
Not for a second.

It's just the point that the media digs up this poll and shoves it in people's faces to push their view. There might be polls which show the opposite, but they don't get the same attention because it doesn't fit in with their agenda that:
women = good, men = bad

Don't want to sound bitter but this sort of thing is everywhere. I used to believe it too before I realized the truth.
 

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This is a study that relies on self reporting. You have to wonder, wouldn't the group that lies more often be less likely to admit that they lie?
 

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Actually I do believe the results that men lie more (although I agree women are generally better at it). One reason is I think society gives men permission to lie, it's expected, sort of like it's expected for guys to want sex. Think of the stereotype of the guy lying to the girl to get into her pants. This definitely happens, a lot.

I remember a thread talking about a research study showing that college age women actually appreciated deceitfulness in their men as an attractive trait.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GetOveIT

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Men and women lie equaly but women are the only ones that lie to themselves (except AFC men)
 

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I choose to believe the reality of my eyes than the words of some stranger.

It's three types of lies and if you believe this you fell for the last of them. Lies, damn lies and statistics.
 

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Statistics prove there is lies, damn lies and women lies - women are far better at it and mask their body language while doing it....
 
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