"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Men/actors you should look up to.

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Ok time for some fun. I have compiled a list of men you should look up to and study.

Matthew McConaughey: Listen to the way he talks nice and smooth! I remember seeing him on Rossie explaining to her his recipe for Beer Battered chicken he had all the women in the audience wet! And he drums naked in his backyard! Talk about a true man! lol! He also takes care of his body.

George Clooney: Has that old school Suaveness to him, just watch any of his movies especially the oceans series.

Samuel L Jackson: Now name one guy that doesn't want to be the baddest motherf$cker on the planet?

If you guys have any other men in mind that post please!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I know it sounds ridiculous but James Bond. Why? He has a sense of mystery towards him that women find attractive. Watching his movies have definetly helped me have a mystery looks towards my appearance.
 

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Yes good one! James Bond is a classic example of a don Juan to look up to he is a timeless character that one should learn from.

Bruce Willis: A chill, Relaxed and funny guy that has many talents outside of acting because he is also a musician.

Marvin Gay: Sexual Healing, nuff said!

Prince: He brought sexy back in the early 80's.

Rick James: Did not give a flying fvck about anything! The dude can lick the most conservative woman on the side of her face and take her home 10 minutes later and Bang her! He is the original superfreak!

Bruce Lee: Mr Charisma! And a man with lots of drive, confidence and he was one ****y guy! And if anyone can get as ripped as Bruce you are set!

Dave aka Don Q: My korean buddy that can sit their at a bar and have women come up to him giving him their number. He has this certain pimp aura around him it's ****in crazy!
 

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Jude Law

Michael Kaine

Peter O'Toole

Sean Connery
 

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Any Mel Gibson character he's played. He's always a badass (he may be a Nazi psycho in real life) but his movie personas are GREAT!:box:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Russell Crowe, in Gladiator. Maximus wasn't exactly a DJ with the ladies, but he was certainly a man of principle and integrity who didn't take any sh*t.

Interestingly enough, I think Juaquin Phoenix's charactor was a classic chump too.
 

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Jeremy Piven -

Entourage, ABC's Cupid, Smokin Aces and punking Stephen Dwarf's azz down in a club.

Artie, ur the man.
 

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Men to look up to

The guys already mentioned are good, but how about the original tough guys:
Marlon Brando
Cary Grant
Humphry Bogart
 

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Jeez, get a life.... actors? Han Solo? Look up to yourself. Be men.

You want celebrities? Take example of Dane Cook. Look up to Lance Armstrong. Even observe Fidel Castro.

Take what you love, and you love about life. Be passionate. If you can't find your passion, keep searching.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this has to be the gayest, silliest post on sosuave.

we are grown ass men. you look within yourself for self improvement, not to some guy who you really have no idea who he is because of a damn script.
 

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Shane Warne
 

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backbreaker said:
this has to be the gayest, silliest post on sosuave.

we are grown ass men. you look within yourself for self improvement, not to some guy who you really have no idea who he is because of a damn script.
So you shouldn't have role models?

Nonsense.
 

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god damnit guys.. dude, you are older than I am and you result to using a damn black and white argument like that.

No one said you shoudln't have role models.

BUT THEY SHOULD BE NON FICTIONAL!!!!!!!

REAL FVCKING PEOPLE

Taht's like me saying my role model is Santa Claus.. he's just as fictional as the guy on entourage or james bond, or what have you.

There are people in history who I have studied, Winston Churchill, Richard the Lionheart, Martin Luther King Jr and a couple others, who I strongly admire.

But I don't, nor will I ever admire a fictional character.
 

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god damnit guys.. dude, you are older than I am and you result to using a damn black and white argument like that.

No one said you shoudln't have role models.

BUT THEY SHOULD BE NON FICTIONAL!!!!!!!

REAL FVCKING PEOPLE

Taht's like me saying my role model is Santa Claus.. he's just as fictional as the guy on entourage or james bond, or what have you.

There are people in history who I have studied, Winston Churchill, Richard the Lionheart, Martin Luther King Jr and a couple others, who I strongly admire.

But I don't, nor will I ever admire a fictional character.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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god damnit guys.. dude, you are older than I am and you result to using a damn black and white argument like that.

No one said you shoudln't have role models.

BUT THEY SHOULD BE NON FICTIONAL!!!!!!!

REAL FVCKING PEOPLE

Taht's like me saying my role model is Santa Claus.. he's just as fictional as the guy on entourage or james bond, or what have you.

There are people in history who I have studied, Winston Churchill, Richard the Lionheart, Martin Luther King Jr and a couple others, who I strongly admire.

But I don't, nor will I ever admire a fictional character.
 

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Charles from "Charles in Charge" - The best character ever on TV. The DVD set has traveled with me many times. Great for when you are at the 8th hour mark of a 10 hour plane flight. I bet he was getting some serious action from everyone in that house. That includes the old Navy dude who acted like a total a$$. God, he was a jerk. Who cares if Baio was almost 30 when it was filmed. It's all good.

Richard from "The Blue Lagoon" (1980) - The greatest stud ever in a movie. The second Richard in the updated movie was a dud. The old Richard would have kicked his a$$. Jovovich was much too old for the part in the second movie. Blame it on the demise of the American girl. They had to use an Ukraine to fill the role. The only problem with the first one was that Richard somehow went from being the same age as Brooke Shields at the beginning of the film (when they were little kids), to all of a sudden being about 10 plus years older than her once the film started getting good. What up with that?

Henry Steele from "One on One" (1977) - Caught a rerun of a rerun of a rerun on a Spanish language station as a child. Had no clue what the hell was going on (me speak no Spanish), but he was a tough little bugger. Made me decide to never partake in team sports. Best decision of my life.
 

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No offense...but a 32 year old man looking up to a 35 year old ACTOR is pretty pathetic.

Now, it is good to have role models...especially when it comes to careers. Heck, I like Colin Powell leadership skills and view him as a role model for younger men like myself (39).

Now...I understand using fictional characters from books and movies to illustrate a point. I do that all the time. Or even to watch a movie to get the juices flowing a little when you are uninspired. But viewing an ACTOR as a role model?

If you are over 30...YOU should be the role model for others.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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