(Men 30/35 +) whats stops you from cold approaching? An honest conversation

[MatureDJ]

Same here, it’s about finding the targets that give you signs of interest or you’ll be wasting a lot of time. I did enjoy those old approach journals on here for the hilarity though

I have always liked the "1000 approaches for the summer" threads, both here and at our more Black Pill brethren site (i.e., whose country URL code is "is").

 

[Gamisch]

I have always liked the "1000 approaches for the summer" threads, both here and at our more Black Pill brethren site (i.e., whose country URL code is "is").

And the journey of a thousand miles starts with one step...

 

[MatureDJ]

And the journey of a thousand miles start with one step...

You do realize that that is basically saying "the journey of a million pairs of steps starts with the first step".

 

[BMX]

You can see right through these female quackjobs. They started acting all 'holier than thou' long ago, when in fact, they were never sh** to begin with. Plenty still keep this charade going today, but more and more are starting to pretend to give a damn about men and are now approaching with their contrived acts in public. CGA said we needed to have a long memory and I always agreed. If she's over 30 and acting this way to you now, I guarantee she wouldn't have given you that same time of day at 28 or even 29. If you personally choose to engage with them now that they hit 30+ hard AF, you can't say you were never warned about shopping around in a lemon lot. They wasted their time in the sun, fkd around and lost that coveted title belt, now I'm choosing to engage with all of their replacements on the come up. They can pretend to 'lead, follow, or GTFO of my way' all they want, but I'm not going to spend my time and resources setting them up for a cushioned exit. Have some self-respect...

 

[eli77]

It used to be being rejected in junior high and high school. I want to overcrowded school back in the '90s that definitely helped with my social anxiety. Plus I got over my fierce public speaking which I think a lot of us have on here

 

[Redwood]

It used to be being rejected in junior high and high school. I want to overcrowded school back in the '90s that definitely helped with my social anxiety. Plus I got over my fierce public speaking which I think a lot of us have on here

It was mandatory for me in high school

 

[eli77]

It was mandatory for me in high school

What was!

 

[Redwood]

What was!

Public speaking.

 

[eli77]

Public speaking.

Back in the '90s I had with books and support from friends it really does come in handy in the real world along with LinkedIn and top notch resume i've only had to update my resume twice in the last decade.

 

[Redwood]

Back in the '90s I had with books and support from friends it really does come in handy in the real world along with LinkedIn and top notch resume i've only had to update my resume twice in the last decade.

It's a plus if you're aiming for managerial positions.

 

[eli77]

It's a plus if you're aiming for managerial positions.

Alot of positions