"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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member from forums-chatted with him, what a ****y big shot"

joe45

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well started goin on this forum and also other forums posting my problems looking for advice. this ranged from having hard time getting a gf, getting a date, strict family parenting, lack of social skills, career and what my folks want me to take.

so be it one of the members contacted me and said he could help me, give me ur msn addy-so we chatted for like a yr now. never met this guy in person as he goes to school somewhere else ,but comes to vancouver when hes on semester break.

this guys is chinese as so am i. a highlight of what he mentions and states
-he made 16k in 3 months disturbuting and selling voo doo dolls
-owns a friggen company-his exact words."i own a friggen company, how aboout you". www.wacoe.ca
-claims to have had 2 gfs at one time and has to get rid of one since he only like one, told me this like repeately, but with differ girls , him always having 2 or more and he has to get rid of em to get one
-i mention i wanted to do trades (plumbing, auto mech, )he says plumbing ppl and girls would look down on you and u will smell like crap, and he said hes too good to be a auto mech."i'm pro". -are ppl and girls that shallow
-asked him if he could set me up with girls-he has lot of female friends, i sent him a pic of myself-he told me that his female friends all said that i was just avg to below avg in looks and that my 2 yr diploma from college is considered too low edcuation.-yes not good enough to set me up and date- thanks for the compliment hey.

-told him the amount i had in the bank-he said for my age i should be having more money- how does age and amount in bank-have anything.
-brags how he makes more money than me hrly and that he also younger too. --wow ur nice guy , good way to put someone down. like i care how much u make

this guy is 23 now but previously he told me this and that, talked him on the phone 2x's comes off as bragging about his so called accomplishments if its true i'm not sure, and ****y in the way he talks like he better than u . arrogrant like hes the smart guy now it all

he also said i wouldn't be able to find a decent to hot looking gf b/c of my lack of social skills. meaning i don't now how to act in social situations. lol we never even met face to face, but just chat on msn -you tellin me u can tell by reading my postings. kind of ignorant and fast to judge hey
he also said my lack of and hard time finding a gf was b/c i had nothing to offer. and u can tell this by how-we hardly now each other. and before he said it was my looks-i'm ok avg looking ok,

thinks just b/c ppl on the forum think more like he does-par to his sid emore -that its right, and less ppl think on my side of thinking thats its wrong -lol. opinions right

oh ya i delete and blocked this guy. should have done it earlier the guys seems like a fake at times. he just kind of annoying, harassing, and calls names. for all u now he could be just BSing about his so called status and what he makes
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BoredDude

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He seems to be fake and his business couldn't possibly be making him a profit at such an early stage in developement. Although it is possible for a business to make an instant profit it is very unlikely and those businesses are usually home made arts and crafts.

Anyways, if you didn't like his methods don't do them. You should always do your own thing, whatever you think is right.
 

joe45

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BoredDude said:
He seems to be fake and his business couldn't possibly be making him a profit at such an early stage in developement. Although it is possible for a business to make an instant profit it is very unlikely and those businesses are usually home made arts and crafts.

Anyways, if you didn't like his methods don't do them. You should always do your own thing, whatever you think is right.
said he was a middle man in a company , and yes while he was also going to university taking business. thsi was his summer job.he sold the dolls to a retailer which went for 1-2 dollars in thailand anbd bought em and sold it here for 4 bucks.

says he owns a friggen business and ppl work for him and hes the boss. hes in univ and hes like 23. from the sound of it he talks like hes braggin about his business and he makes this and that,
 

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My head is about to explode from reading your posts joe45.

With that said, from the tone of your posts, you sound like you seriously dislike this guy. If that's accurate, WHY THE HELL DO YOU KEEP TALKING TO HIM? FOR A YEAR NO LESS! Wake up dude. If you're confident about your opinions then why do you need HIS validation?

Grow a pair and if you want to be able to better communicate your points in English on a forum full of English speakers please take some English courses.
 

skirtChaser

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why are you having relationship online?....why is this here?...what does it have to do with getting laid?......were you trying to close on some butt sex?....you need to go and meet some people (in person).....I agree with your butt buddy...you need some social skills, sitting at home online will not help,
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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